If you’ve been together over 1 year and aren’t in love, should you move on?

[Anonymous]

Why or why not?

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Why would you be in a relationship with someone that you are not in love with? Let alone, move in with someone that you are in a relationship with but aren’t in love with?


It seems awfully complicated and confusing. I don’t see the point in being together at all if you aren’t in love with each other. I don’t see the point in moving in with someone you aren’t in love with their. At that point, why call it a relationship?

[Asker]

I think you’ve misunderstood the question

[WhatTheHeckkkk]

Whoops, my deepest apologies. I am running on few hours of sleep and misread it. 😂

Anyways… I think it still kinda applies to an extent;
I don’t see the point in being together if you aren’t in love after a year. Sure, love takes time to grow and develop, but if it’s been over a year and you just don’t feel that *spark,* when will you feel the spark? Ya know? Are you happy with them? Do you think you’d be compatible years down the road? What keeps you two together?

I think moving on would be the best course of action, since it is a loveless relationship, or one sided relationship! Those never work out in the end, there will always be difficulties that you two just can’t work through.

But, I apologize again for misunderstanding, I am now more awake lol. I hope it makes more sense and I do hope everything works out in this situation❤️

[jahaims]

For sure. If it hasn't happened by then, then it isn't going to happen