You guys are in different states and haven’t seen each other in over a year, and you always put in the effort to see her and that bothers you. However, I think there are other bigger concerns that you have...
You said that “things have been fairly stagnant... and there is really no clear direction for the relationship [and] she cries [when you bring issues up and you’re] just there comforting her.”
It sounds like you’re worried that she’s no longer interested in you, and you are aware that she can’t face things that upset her and work through them with you.
Although you’re far apart and she doesn’t like to travel, she still could be showing interest in you & your relationship through texting & talking on the phone.
You should talk with her over the phone and ask her whether her feelings for you have changed. If she says they’re the same, then you have a decision to make...
Whether you’re fine with hearing that from her and also her not traveling to see you, or if you “need more” expressed interest from her other than her traveling, or whether she’s the right woman for you.
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Long distance relationships are difficult even when it's an established relationship.
Do you video call her on a regular basis?
What is she crying about?
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Sounds like there is above all a lack of trust
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Go for it and see what happens
Maybe give it some time to see where things go
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