I remember back a while ago girls/women were what they called "Revirginizing" themselves. They withheld from having sex for a long period of time and that's how they did it. It's just a thought.
I am so sorry this happened to you as it happened to me as well. Mine was what they call "Date rape" because I knew the guy. Rape is rape any way you look at it.
Yes, that bastard stole a very precious part of you, but you still can live through this and you will see that he didn't steal all of you. It may seem like it now, but you still have the core of yourself in tact. You still have dreams to fulfill. No one can you ake your dreams away from you! I don't know you, but I am sure I would be able to find some very good stuff about you.
Please don't allow him to get inside your head too much. You must be strong and take back any power you think he took away from you.
Someone will probably fall in love with you someday. Someone you can learn to trust and tell him what happened to you. The nice guys out there will be very understanding I am sure.
You take care. Sweet dreams 🌹
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Well being a parent of a teen girl i will say that id be pissed if you were my daughter at this person. Im pissed for you to. What he did isn't ok at all and remember that although he took that from you you out still pure because it wasn't consential. You need professional help also. You need someone who has over come this that can relate. A guy who loves you will love you for your personality not because of what happened to you they eil love the person you are. Please seek proffesional help this person should be in jail.
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The issue with rape is literally in your head
When I say this what I mean is the true issue is the psychological effects it has on you
If you didn't get pregnant and you and you get your head together then ultimately you will regain your best opportunities
I feel bad for you
Truly I do but if you want your life back then what you really need to do is work out the issues In your head and seek out help from your friends
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Unfortunately, you cannot. Forgive me for asking if this is a disturbing subject for you, but were you raped?
And yes, you can still find a man who will want to be in a relationship with you. You will need to find healing and get some confidence beforehand though.
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First I'm so sorry that's an awful feeling and you can't get your virginity back unfortunately a lot of us wish we could but you can move on and become stronger with time it will get better right now I know it feels like you have lost hope remind yourself that your better and beautiful and that he can't take anything away from you.
Do meditation, do inner engineering from Sadhguru. Do the practices, you will heal and find someone. You have to do the work yourself. Seek therapy also. Don't think in the way you are thinking that they took your power and used you and all that crap. Noone can take your power. It is not possible. You just think they did. If you see them for the weak garbage trash they were, you will feel like you took your power back. Devalue them as they deserve and see them as the trash they were.
Women who lost their virginity and failed their first relationship suffers from noble decay. They fester their rotten past only to follow despairing romance in emotional misery. Become a Nun and Repent!
Most men would not see you as damaged or unpure. You were raped, a violent act against you. I hope you get the counseling you need and can heal.
There are a LOT of guys that will still like you for you, and aren't worried about your Virginity status and they WANT to be with you and care/love you
its literally just a label.
stop giving it so much credit.It’s ok. Losing your v card isn’t the end of the world.
Dont look for help here. You need to find a professional psychotherapist ( they cost money so be prepared for expenses) and get on recovery. Its for your own good.
You can't. Even if you got to chop his dick off and left him to bleed out and die you would still be in the same situation. Time heals all wounds, but rape takes the longest to heal. Hopefully he does go to jail for raping you.
You're still the same girl, don't be bitter. Everyone gets heartbroken. Just pick up the pieces, brush yourself off and stand up and be strong. Forget about the guy, hopefully he gets karma. You're still valuable :)
You can't but you can take him out might be cathartic and certain societally good
Impossible, that ship has sailed.
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