How can I get back my virginity?

[Anonymous]

After it was stolen from me, how can I be the person I was before it was stolen? How do I continue living like this, with no justice just struggling everyday!!! How is it fair for him to do that and be happy while I’m suffer here unable to do anything after he took my power, happiness, dreams and so much more. HOW IS IT FAIR? Who will want me since I’m being used and discarded😭😭😭

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You guys don’t understand I’m was raped. I wasn’t in a relationship with someone

[Anonymous]

I remember back a while ago girls/women were what they called "Revirginizing" themselves. They withheld from having sex for a long period of time and that's how they did it. It's just a thought.
I am so sorry this happened to you as it happened to me as well. Mine was what they call "Date rape" because I knew the guy. Rape is rape any way you look at it.
Yes, that bastard stole a very precious part of you, but you still can live through this and you will see that he didn't steal all of you. It may seem like it now, but you still have the core of yourself in tact. You still have dreams to fulfill. No one can you ake your dreams away from you! I don't know you, but I am sure I would be able to find some very good stuff about you.
Please don't allow him to get inside your head too much. You must be strong and take back any power you think he took away from you.
Someone will probably fall in love with you someday. Someone you can learn to trust and tell him what happened to you. The nice guys out there will be very understanding I am sure.
You take care. Sweet dreams 🌹

[Rebecka33]

Well being a parent of a teen girl i will say that id be pissed if you were my daughter at this person. Im pissed for you to. What he did isn't ok at all and remember that although he took that from you you out still pure because it wasn't consential. You need professional help also. You need someone who has over come this that can relate. A guy who loves you will love you for your personality not because of what happened to you they eil love the person you are. Please seek proffesional help this person should be in jail.

[crossdressingrihno]

Look
I'm going to be honest
The issue with rape is literally in your head
When I say this what I mean is the true issue is the psychological effects it has on you

If you didn't get pregnant and you and you get your head together then ultimately you will regain your best opportunities

I feel bad for you
Truly I do but if you want your life back then what you really need to do is work out the issues In your head and seek out help from your friends

[crossdressingrihno]

Make new friends if you must just don't lose yourself

[crossdressingrihno]

It's when it's when you give up that the true pain will bare it's fangs

[BCRanger10]

Unfortunately, you cannot. Forgive me for asking if this is a disturbing subject for you, but were you raped?

And yes, you can still find a man who will want to be in a relationship with you. You will need to find healing and get some confidence beforehand though.

[becee23love]

First I'm so sorry that's an awful feeling and you can't get your virginity back unfortunately a lot of us wish we could but you can move on and become stronger with time it will get better right now I know it feels like you have lost hope remind yourself that your better and beautiful and that he can't take anything away from you.

[mantelk]

Do meditation, do inner engineering from Sadhguru. Do the practices, you will heal and find someone. You have to do the work yourself. Seek therapy also. Don't think in the way you are thinking that they took your power and used you and all that crap. Noone can take your power. It is not possible. You just think they did. If you see them for the weak garbage trash they were, you will feel like you took your power back. Devalue them as they deserve and see them as the trash they were.

[MagicCarpet1]

Women who lost their virginity and failed their first relationship suffers from noble decay. They fester their rotten past only to follow despairing romance in emotional misery. Become a Nun and Repent!

[Anonymous]

Most men would not see you as damaged or unpure. You were raped, a violent act against you. I hope you get the counseling you need and can heal.

[one1wild00]

There are a LOT of guys that will still like you for you, and aren't worried about your Virginity status and they WANT to be with you and care/love you

[one1wild00]

I may not fully understand the psych scar, just that its there. but I also know with help and a caring and a good support group you will make it through it and be stronger for it.

[SnakeBoop]

its literally just a label.
stop giving it so much credit.

[WhitneySnow]

It’s ok. Losing your v card isn’t the end of the world.

[WhitneySnow]

I’m so sorry. You need professional counseling more than you need the help of random strangers on the Internet.

[Anonymous]

Dont look for help here. You need to find a professional psychotherapist ( they cost money so be prepared for expenses) and get on recovery. Its for your own good.

[Asker]

My rapist should pay for that

[Opinion Owner]

If you say so. But can you make it so?

[Anonymous]

You can't. Even if you got to chop his dick off and left him to bleed out and die you would still be in the same situation. Time heals all wounds, but rape takes the longest to heal. Hopefully he does go to jail for raping you.

[Anonymous]

You're still the same girl, don't be bitter. Everyone gets heartbroken. Just pick up the pieces, brush yourself off and stand up and be strong. Forget about the guy, hopefully he gets karma. You're still valuable :)

[Anonymous]

You can't but you can take him out might be cathartic and certain societally good

[Wise4myage]

Impossible, that ship has sailed.

[JesseJayNeak]

You can’t get it back

[justafckboy69]

Message me let's chat

[sage2021]

@justafckboy69 the girl just got raped and you, with the name juatafckboy69 is asking her to private message YOU. You are a psycho and need to be put in a psych ward for many years to come. You need to take your sick self off this site and not come back. Your type is not wanted here! Who do you think you are anyway? You better stay the hell away from her OR else!

[justafckboy69]

First off - mind your own business.

2nd, don't insinuate and assume what my conversation topic included.

3rd take your misinterpreted judgment else where.

[justafckboy69]

My sister was raped. That's how my nephew was born.

I actually have help insight on the subject matter, from real life experience.

It's a conversation I'd rather have in private.

by the way - thanks for screaming 'SHE GOT RAPED' - when the poster was clearly hinted towards, but reframed from using the rape throughout the entire post.

I understand the severity of the topic decision. Obviously you're interoperation was misconstrued.

I don't know how old you are, but you seem very immature. Understand people make troll user names.

[sage2021]

@jusrafckboy69 Did you read her update? I suggest you do that, because your opinion had some words to me that weren't true according to the asker. She also voted my opinion as Most Helpful Opinion!

[sage2021]

@justafckboy69 I left you a reply I think you need to read. I misspelled your username so it didn't go directly to you. But this will lead you to the reply I wrote to you.

[lpoots]

once its gone its gone

[Luckycharms12]

It can't