Does this mean he considers us back together?

[sd1223]

So my ex and I, we were talking about meeting up last night or so I thought, as the night went on i realized he wasn’t going to make it but he didn’t think to communicate that to me. Well we got into a big of a small argument, it got resolved thankfully but at one point he said that I could find someone else if I were going to get that mad. My thing is, wouldn’t we have to be together for me to find someone else? He kind of threw me off when he said that. What do you guys think?

[Nawlins34]

I wouldn't take this as you two are back together, this is more he's making it very clear if you don't like it, leave him alone.

[sd1223]

I see. When he said “you can find someone else” I’m like well don’t we have to be together for that to happen? That’s why I was wondering why he said that, he was saying it like we’re together

[Nawlins34]

Not true, I can say the exact same statement and we've never met each other in person.

You should get a more direct, verbal answer (sex isn't it) from him.

Either way, he's made it clear he's not dealing with you getting that upset over that particular issue. He's drawn a clear line.

[sd1223]

That’s true he can get like that sometimes

[VanessaValentine]

No real life love story happens when two da get back together and live happily ever after. Loose him immediately. You always want want you can’t have. Start seeing other guys. Especially guys way out of your league. That is the best way to loose him.

[sd1223]

I don’t really want to move on from him. We’ve been doing this for awhile now.
But I was just asking about when he said to find someone else when we aren’t together.

[VanessaValentine]

Go golfing at the nicest place in town. I know that’s weird and out of your comfort zone. I know you probably will think you’ll embarrass yourself. Just ware one of those cute AF golfer outfits and rent some clubs. I guarantee you you’ll have walked out on the best day of your life having give out your number to more handsome wealthy kind gentlemen than you ever knew existed. Please try it. Please please please.

[sd1223]

Thanks for the advice but this isn’t really focusing on what I was asking.

[VanessaValentine]

I know that’s because you need to forget about him. Cut him out completely.

[sd1223]

Why do people have such a negative view on exes? When someone has been in your life for almost 2 years and you have feelings for them it’s not that cut and dry. He’s not an a hole so why should I cut him off and move on? We’ve both went and seen someone else and it didn’t work, we ended up finding our way back to each other in a way. We’re in a really good place compared to before.

[SignedAutographs]

If you have to settle for an ex... you need to get out more. TRUST ME

[sd1223]

Not settling I’ve been nuts about him for the longest. We have both went and seen one other person aside from each other but we ended up coming back to each other in a way. He’s really not a crap guy I was trying to set up the context of when he would’ve made this comment.

[SignedAutographs]

Like i said, if you need to settle for an ex... you need to get out more. TRUST ME

[sd1223]

You guys really aren’t answering what I’m asking about, the question wasn’t should I move on from him, if I really wanted to do so I would have.

[SignedAutographs]

Like i said, YOU SHOULD MOVE ON FROM HIM

YOU ARE ACTING LIKE A DESP. HO

[sd1223]

I don’t want anyone else but him really. There have been far worst guys than him.

[SignedAutographs]

You can certainly find other men

we're a dime a dozen

DO NOT SETTLE