Do you feel it’s an obligation for your partner to cook or clean for you?

[Tinana]

Yes

No

We should do it together. It’s a partnership

Hire a cook or cleaner

I’ll bring money (he or she should do house chores)

Other reason will explain

[MrOracle]

Yes, absolutely. Just as it is for me to do the same for her.

In a relationship, I bring a lot to the table. I not only bring income, I also do a lot of labor, maintaining and improving the house, the yard, and the vehicles. You damn well better believe that she needs to be happy to cook a meal or run a load of laundry while I'm mowing the lawns, trimming the trees, maintaining all the vehicles, doing the plumbing, electrical, drywall, painting, and Audio/Video work - plus cooking plenty of meals myself.

I'm not above cleaning a toilet or a shower and she shouldn't be either. I will almost certainly outwork her overall, so I am not going to accept a woman who thinks she doesn't have to pull her share of the weight. I promise you, she would never be happier doing my share instead, and my past girlfriends would be the first to say that.

I'm not perfect by any means, but I am definitely not entitled and I lead from the front - I don't ask my techs to do anything I don't do and I don't expect my girl to do anything I don't do, but neither will I accept entitlement or someone who feels she is too good to do work. We're a TEAM, and everyone has to contribute their part to the team's success.

[HighValue]

If I am the majority of the support (providing the house, utilities, etc.) then she should do the majority of stuff at home (Including the outside stuff, not just inside).

[dustybiker]

Whoever gets to it first does it. It’s not
something ignored. The home is shared, but it’s keep is not always 50/50.

[Tinana]

I agree with this ☺️

[dustybiker]

Thanks for the mhg.

[TommyMountainFigure]

If I cook she'll wash up. If she cooks, I get the fire extinguisher out... I'm only kidding :D I don't have a problem washing up.

[Tinana]

😂😂

[libsaretards]

I want to cook with her. Normally I cannot stand someone in the kitchen when I cook or being in the kitchen when they cook, but for some reason it is different for a woman I am dating.

[NathanDavis]

nope... I have been doing all that and much more for myself, and for over 16 years now

[Guy_No1974]

It's a shared responsibility, I wouldn't expect my girlfriend to be my cleaner etc, I'm perfectly capable of looking after myself.

[Anonymous]

It should be a partnership; someone takes care of house work and someone brings home a paycheck. Maybe a little diversification of the tasks.

[bamesjond0069]

Yeah i dont cook or clean. I make plenty money and im a man, so not my responsibility.

[Tinana]

If you make plenty money wouldn’t it be better having someone else clean since you should be able to afford it. What does being a man have to do with any of this

[bamesjond0069]

How could i respect her if she doesn't contribute?

[Tinana]

You could both work

[bamesjond0069]

Short of a full time live in cook and housekeeper. Like come down at midnight "jeeves a warm milk and cookie please" lol That means someone has to do something. She has to be the one. I think people have this idea you just hire someone but really you can't. As someone who grew up with maids and stuff. I remember my mom yelling "everyone clean the maids are coming." Lmao. You literally need live in on site full time staff to not have to do anything. For even just one staff. Figure $50k total costs. What woman makes enough at a job to justify that? I mean if she makes 40k and you spend 50k its a fail. Lol i mean yeah some women make good money but practically as a man, i can count on one hand how many women make $100k that aren't like 40+ years old. Just not a reasonable thing to find dating wise. Alternatively any old waitress or random girl off the street can adequately handle the cooking and cleaning if they care to do so.

[Tinana]

Okay, from your analogy let’s assume the tables were turned an she earns way more than you do. You’d have to clean and cook as the man, right?

[bamesjond0069]

No because that situation wouldn't happen. If i didn't make any money i wouldn't bother to date because i am not personally into cooking or cleaning. I think its morally wrong for a man to do that anyways.

[Stevefiveo]

My wife insists that these are her jobs. Good old fashioned girl.

[Abdulwahh]

She must know how to cook yes but i will help her my wife

[RHK36]

Obligations to each other to help one another.

[Xtendable]

I voted C