Which is worse, a person who is a liar or the person who had to spy and be manipulative to find out the other was lying to them?

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This isn't in reference to myself, just thinking about it in general from conversations I've seen between couples.
Which is worse, a person who is a liar or the person who had to spy and be manipulative to find out the other was lying to them?
Lets say someone keeps saying they are not doing something anymore. Something they used to do but they stopped because they got into the relationship.

I don't have any particular thing in mind that is being hidden, just the concept of hiding and lying about it. Decided to throw something in here, cause it can be hard for people to imagine without an idea.

If something else fits you better, use it instead.

Lets say person A says they used to do onlyfans and sell content on snapchat. They no longer do.

They promise to their SO they no longer do that and give lots of reasons why. They have stated this many times in the past, nothing to be worried about.
Which is worse, a person who is a liar or the person who had to spy and be manipulative to find out the other was lying to them?
Person B, the SO does at first trust without a doubt, but then starts to find little things that don't match up. Eventually they make a fake account to spy on their partner and find out, they've been lied to all along. That they really are still doing onlyfans and selling content on snap.


Which is worse and why do you think that?

No option for both are bad, cause trying to determine what most people think is the worst of the two.
Lying is the worst
Vote A
Spying is the worst
Vote B
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