Wow... Sounds like he got off the Puss Carousel, and now he wants to settle down and be serious because he's already had his fun.
If he's paying child support already, maybe he's learned something or at least he's feeling the pain of that decision already maybe? But I don't know if that's a factor for him.
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Girl. Ima say this. If he want to take his time. That’s a nice way of telling you he doesn’t want another kid
I have a husband of 4 years. together for 5.
Im 22 and he is 16 years older than me.
he has 3 diff baby moms. One child with each.
But I got two children from him. After 2 years of being together.
He’s showing some red flags. Bc there’s no such thing as when the time is right!
If you’re with the right person everything will happen. And you will not have to wait for ANYONE queen.
Sounds like he's learned his lesson.
He's been burned in the past, so he's more cautious. So both of you are on the same page, ask him what he's looking to see to know the time is right. Relationships tend to not work out well when people withhold information from the other person and expect that person to guess. Just let him know you're curious and would like to see things through his eyes. Don't pressure him or put him on the defensive with "you" statements.
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