There are a lot of preppy white girls over the summer who want to have black dick. WHo want some unique experience or to fulfill a fetish or fantasy. They joke about it with their girlfriends. I have been on the receiving end and had sex with beautiful white women. I love to be a fetish... however. Now I am older and looking for love and a family and that kind of thing is very hurtful to be on the receiving end of.
There are also stereotypes about how certain races are in bed. White girls often see chocolate as kinky and dominant and they get hitched onto a date with a black man expecting a fantasy. Its painful again if you are serious about love.
My best friend is a woman and she told me that she was excited about having sex with a guy because she had never fucked a native American before. It was something she always wanted so they went on a date and had sex in the back of the car. But she also has another guy she likes who is really kind and sweet korean guy. So she has sex with him too. So now she has 2 races and she is living 2 different fantasies at the same time right now. THis is the modern day dating woman on tinder etc.
It is often disengeous. Its not because hookup sex is a bad thing. I am all for it. It is because women will lead guys on and lie about their intentions or what they are doing. Most of them are in denial about everything. I am sure my friend says she is looking for true love. But the only way she describes them is sweet guy and native guy. It is disingeuous because a lot of people convince themselves that their intentions are pure when they really are not.
On the other hand. You have a lot BS that takes place simply because of hookup culture and it has nothing to do with race. Take my friend for example. She is hispanic. Native guy didn't hook up with her in the back seat of his car because she was hispanic. Regardless of race he just wanted to have sex. Same thing with sweet korean guy. i think he truly likes her but it wasn't about her being hispanic. The point I am trying to make is that guys are mainly interested in either sex or a relationship. It is about looks more than race. I think that women are more likely to play disingeous games.
From my experience interracially dating, ladies see the dating game as a build a bear factory. THis month they want a black dude. next week they want a latino guy. etc etc. Dating during hot girl summer for women is literally like a game.
That depends on whether they actively seek out a partner of a different race or if they met and got to know someone and fell in love with them (not their race). Generally, when people seek out a different race it's either for superficial reasons (ie expected body part size) or to rebel against a rigid upbringing. These people are often disappointed in the long run, not comfortable with other common aspects. It's like city folk who fantasize about living in the country. They may buy a house in the country but rarely last more than 2 years, as they can't deal with the lack of conveniences along with the extra challenges.
Open-minded people who fall in love with the person, rather than the race, can also find certain aspects to be challenging, especially if they're expected to conform to what is familiar to the partner. It's challenging enough when encountering people who expect their partner to conform (though they generally say they're not controlling), but adding into the equation traditions and other aspects that are totally foreign can compound the challenges.
Differences aren't necessarily a problem in a relationship, as long as people don't feel threatened by those difference. It's not the race that creates the problem; it's the common belief their partner will change into their ideal, if they love them, that makes a relationship a problem. That's not saying this doesn't exist when dating within one's race, but differences may be seen as fewer or less extreme in those situations. Never assume a relationship won't thrive just because it is interracial. Pay attention to all aspects of a relationship and both people's perspectives before investing.
Out of all the ones I was in, only one was able to see past ethnicity/race and that made me happy. We discussed it day one and never again. No need to. Our fams were even mature about it. There were no awkward moments. But the other guys had parents who were against them datint me and the guy himselfq would constantly say dumb stereotypical and fetishizing stuff that was just offputting and we didn't last. So i’m still open to interracial dating but its not what i intentionally go for
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I am white but I’ve dated latino, Asian and briefly a black girl.
There are often cultural differences that can cause difficulties in the beginning. My Asian ex girlfriend was a true Chinese born Asian woman.
She didn’t show her emotions often which was nice in the beginning but screwed up things down the road. She was quiet and expected me to call all the shots which I mostly liked. However I do occasionally like it when a woman takes control (not always). But it gives me some relief with all the thinking and planning.
Anyway I was doing things to turn her off and didn’t even know it until it was too late. She ghosted me with no warning after 9 months of dating after a minor argument. I was also 12 years older than her so I knew the age gap made this a risk. Still though it did hurt.
However if you really love someone it’s possible to transcend those differences. It takes effort. However it can make you a better informed person because it enables you to understand different cultures.
Not sure what you mean by disingenuous... an inter racial relationship isn't any less sincere than a same-race relationship. I do agree the family issues can get in the way. I'm Asian and my wife is white. My in laws have stereotypical perspectives on Asians which shape their opinion of me. Sometimes in very insulting ways. It's been a sore spot for our marriage.
I have been in several interracial relationships. While I think that there are people who get into interracial relationships genuinely for love, I think there are more people who get into them for racial fetishism reasons.
The culture and values of the two are more important factors than race. I see no issue as long as other people mind their own fucking business.
I was in an interracial relationship, and while no it didn't work out in the end, race wasn't a factor.
It depends on the people. Although I'll agree somwhat that it is more likely to fail due to cultural differences and issues.
I don’t think so, when you have a true love is different, you don’t fall in object love as a body or look, you live the personality and sense of humor.
Don't think so. There could be many contributing factors.
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Race has nothing got to do with it. Some times it works out others it doesn't
Well they are riskier
Nope.
