AGE GAP RELATIONSHIP 15 years?

[barlowhavelock]

I find myself attracted to a 45 year old man, I am a 32 year old woman. We seem to be very sexually attracted to one another. We are both career focused. But also finding a relationship together. To the guys that might have had a slight age gap relationship, would you feel like the woman you were seeing was inferior to you on sheer basis of age?

[ohshee]

No not even when a man meets a woman that he likes and he's that age and she's her age it doesn't even think about that he looks the woman as his equal as his age okay time out this is hard to explain when a man needs a woman whether she's older or younger than him he doesn't look at that person as this is how old she is he looks at that person as an equal to him age has nothing to even do with it it's who you are on the inside is how smart you are it's how wise you are how confident you are I don't know if I'm saying it right but anyway no you were fine and if you guys are happy that's all that counts because H has no part in it you are both equal you're both the same as he thinks that he's 25 inside of his mind then he sees you at 25 it I'm still not say what I want to say but I hope you understand what I'm trying to say LOL

[Finchie40]

Age gap really doesn’t mean shit , you are both adults , all that matters if you both have great chemistry and connection , when people hold age as a deciding factor it is kind of silly unless they are under legal age then that’s a different story but when 2 people meet that have great chemistry and connection the last thing you are thinking is how old they are , I don’t walk up to beautiful girls that catch my eye and say How old are you right off the bat, the topic of age might come up later in the conversation cuz it’s really not a big deal , even if I found out her and I had a gap in age , it doesn’t mean I am automatically going to dislike her all of a sudden , so age to me really doesn’t mean shit , it’s the chemistry and connection and attraction that matters

[LazerBean]

It's not a big deal at your ages. The older you are, the less the age gap has any significance.

[shyguy1886]

Yes and no! It depends on the two interesting parties involved and their inferior complex if either have such feeling of inadequacy towards one party. Just because one is young due to a big age gap doesn't mean they have that feeling of inadequacy after-all they might be very mature for their age and prefer someone older due to finding someone around own age as immature for them or indeed inferior to them.

[Anonymous]

Is it bothering you (you're asking on here, so this makes me think it is?)? Chances are good that it will bother you more than him. But, I know a couple of couples like this. What's important isn't age, it's relationship wants, goals, where you are in life etc. Those all need to be compatible, on top of the two of you in general. And if you aren't bothered by the age, he won't be either or he wouldn't be with you.

[bamesjond0069]

Inferior? No. On my level? Yes. Men and women are valued differently. Im 35 and my girlfriend is 19. she's on my level. A woman at my age by definition is an inferior match in comparison to myself. Just as a 19 year old man is inferior to my girlfriend.

Seems pretty good. At your age ranges 15 years makes sense so with just that limited info id say you're doing good.

[Anonymous]

At 32? She'd HAVE TO be a very immature 32 for me to think that. Most people have got a handle on life or at least are working towards it by 32. Part of being an adult is accepting that everyone has a story and their own baggage. BUT IT'S WHAT THEY'RE DOING RIGHT NOW that matters. You're not a nice person if you rate people "superior" or "inferior".

[Anonymous]

Nothing wrong with it but if you ever want something meaningful just wanting sex isn't going to get you anywhere

[JamesRandiDebates]

Women are inferior regardless of age. he's gonna be quite happy just boning some younger pussy. You're already past the wall, he's as good as you're gonna get.

[barlowhavelock]

That is the second time I am hearing this.. what wall? omg k what

[JamesRandiDebates]

The Wall is what women slam headfirst into around age 30. Your looks are gone, and you can no longer expect men to grant all your wishes just hoping you'll spread your legs for them. Your best days are behind you.

[barlowhavelock]

Someone should just full on tell Jennifer Lopez that she is not hitting it right then, by your logic...

Really? I don't expect any man to pay for me or my life with my V...

I'm almost 32 so I must be really ugly and old. Eeeewww. Jesus, I hope you are not just spewing this as gospel.

Cause it is so false. I just feel bad for you man.

[JamesRandiDebates]

Denial ain't just a river in Egypt, baby.

[barlowhavelock]

I respect your opinion. But I'm not in denial about my age. I'm in my sexual prime rn. And I feel good. Have a nice day.

[sp33d]

At that point I wouldn't consider it a problem. Something like 35 vs 20 would be setting off some alarms, though.

[IsoUser]

I wouldn't mind the age gap given that you're both adults. Besides it makes things more exciting.

[barlowhavelock]

More exciting in terms of the getting to know you process and relatable experiences. Coupled with the idea that he can communicate effectively. Makes it honestly a good trial run. I hope, fingers crossed

[Sam_25]

I doubt he able to satisfied you secualuy...

[Sam_25]

Sexualy*

[barlowhavelock]

Honestly the 26 year old I was seeing previously only cared about himself sexually. I find my new boyfriend to be much better at sharing when it comes to bedroom activities.

[Sam_25]

Wow. Happy for you.
Drink a lot till the party is over.

[barlowhavelock]

appreciate it! thank you for your answer!

[Jamie05rhs]

That isn't 15. That's 13.

[Emanon25]

It’s not about the age, is about your honest love.

[Alex8736]

As long as they are not 29 and you are 14 😂

[Anonymous]

You want to jump and down on him , admit it

[barlowhavelock]

What does that mean? Getting intimate you mean? I would like a relationship.

[barlowhavelock]

I do. Lol but he is fun too and interesting to talk to as well.

[jimmy2]

No worries dear