How is it like being submissive in a relationship?

[Jojojojojojojo]

Like from what I heard
They are like… talk less
follow plans
never scold back
and always prepare what he or she needs..
I want to know what are the others and anyone here are submissive too please share opinions and do u feel happy being that person?

[Harleigh90]

Knowing a little bit about the scene, iv never met two subs the same. Depending on their kink/s subs vary.
Different kinks for a sub could be kitten/pet, brat, slave/service/little (there's probably a few more) Some subs like to blend or switch between.
A sub isn't someone who sits quietly or takes what is dished to them like a doormat, their complient to please their dom, well eventually depending on the kink/role lol.
A dom listens and feels to his subs needs, without words he knows his sub needs, whether to withdraw or push more.
Dom/sub relationship can be 24/7 and subs can choice to wear a collar 'owned'

I think many who don't know the scene or listen to hearsay mistakes subs for being weak, when in fact most are strong and independent, they choose the lifestyle to be a sub.

[Fineasaaa]

Yess, omg, I love being that lmao, its like you dont have to do anything, you only get the pleasure, I prefer being sub rather than always finding new ways to make your significant other happy, also being dom kinda seems sadistic to me, so no

[Fineasaaa]

Update: Dayum, I realise now that I never read your writing, in that case no, there should be a balance

[Anonymous]

Sometimes, yes. I'm sometimes submissive sexually but not so much in our relationship. To me, it involves listening to and following her orders as far as how to pleasure her and not arguing about anything she asks for.

[Guy13]

My woman is naturally submissive and highly successful. Her gracious and submissive nature is striking and helps her get promotions in major international companies.

[cyclist89]

As a submissive man I can say we do argue and fight back but... But we end up usually pussy-whipped and in process of discipline and humiliation learn our place.

I love pleasing woman.

If woman is into submissive guy usually she has dominating side, and when she learns his weaknesses. Sooner or later she will put on a grip on his balls. Squeezing them as much as she needs to set him in line.

For a submissive guy it's pretty embarrassing admiting to your self your the bitch in relationship ;p

[laurieluvsit]

Yes, I totally love a guy who knows what he wants and how to get it!

I melt like butter in his hands. What ever he says that brings him pleasure I will do as long as it doesn't involve serious pain or anything like scat.

[ChrisMaster69]

Lol sorry I had to laugh at the description of a submissive.

i assume you mean passive in a relationship and not submissive sexually.

[msmissydc]

I thought the same. Beeing a bratty sub doesn't fit this describtion in the slightest.

[MzAsh]

The term refers to both relationships and sex.

[billmunch]

I prefer it if the woman is strong and educated. If that's the case, I make it known that she's the boss and I just do as I'm told.

[Anonymous]

The sex is all about her pleasure