Can a partner be aggressively submissive in the relationship?

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majortom2805 · Accepted Answer

Aggressively submissive sounds strange but I think it can be done.

The whole brat dynamic is one version of it. It can also be done in a way that is manipulative where one partner might submit, apparently willingly, but then turn it on the other partner and accuse them of always having their way.

Massageman · Accepted Answer

Well, there are jumbo shrimp, minor disasters, awfully good examples, people found missing, ill health, original copies, and unbiased opinions, so I guess almost anything is possible in the world of  oxymorons .

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

Good question. I'm no expert at all here. But seems like @Account is right.
Maybe if you take out the word "submissive" it makes it all simpler. Someone's in charge, calling the shots, setting the scene, and you know who that is. Labels are not always necessary.

Account · Accepted Answer

It is called acting like a brat. Sure can happen. You sort of provoke the other person in order to dominate you.

Can_I_Get_a_Do-Over · Answer

Yes, I think they can because submissive actually control from the bottom.

MrKinktastic · Answer

Yes absolutely, power bottoms and topping from the bottom are pretty common in the bdsm world

masseylacey906 · Answer

I thank so. I'm like that at times , take what I want then give n 🤭😁

JamesBlackDragon · Answer

Yes they are called power bottoms (i think) it's pretty much when the person who is getting spanked or whatever is the one telling you to do it and how they want you to do it

Phoenix98 · Answer

Hmm I don't know this is my first time hearing that aggressively submissive. It's probably a thing.

sexylocal · Answer

So aggressively submissive sounds like being more than willing to be so... therefore the answer is yes they can be.. is that good or bad? It's your relationship.. so whatever feels or works right then thats cool...

ZSean · Answer

My ex kinda was. Some times she realllly wanted me to dominate more.

foxygirl4ever · Answer

Yes moat definitely. Is it'someone sse they dont know.

Anonymous · Answer

In a way, yeah. If you beg it like hell to be dominated then... You're kinda an aggressive sub lol

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

perhaps like him being like 'LET ME SERVE YOU PLEASE

Richy_Rich · Answer

Yea this is an oxymoron  Like saying " I'm really up down right now "

JesseTheMan · Answer

Some people are. It can get weird if someone is overly submissive when you don't really want it. Feels bad walkingover a total doormat.

MorticiAddams · Answer

Why yes they can!! I am!!

Manuel2 · Answer

A little love fights but no bruising. Once bruising appears, gone too far

yourpsychosuburban · Answer

Hell yeah they can, I love that shit even though I like it when she mibe slow about it

mcarthur127 · Answer

Yes. It's called relationship colorblind. They do anything and everything the person they are with asks sexually

anxiousmistress · Answer

Yes. My boyfriend is aggressive when it comes to being dominated. He wants it ALL. THE. FUCKING. TIME

Arthur_71 · Answer

Yes in sex a partner can be sumissive but in day to day life i don't think beign submissive to someone is good for anything

Msibus · Answer

I dont see why not, as long as the person your in a relationship with is understanding your communication, why not!

Shemrock08 · Answer

Only if the respective person is mentally balanced enough!

zornus · Answer

Yes they can, but the other have to catch that and Play proper with that role

creaizy · Answer

Yes and it would be great to find such a person If the dominant one as their intrests at heart

crmoore · Answer

Yes. I think they're called power bottoms

ThisIsMyOpinion · Answer

What does that mean?

shadowlhyn · Answer

It's not impossible..

opinionated_hoe · Answer

Like a power bottom? Lol

SydneySentinel · Answer

I'm not sure

Agape93 · Answer

Yeah

WhiteShoulder · Answer

Yes. They can.

kangy · Answer

Aggressively submissive means very submissive?

Bluemax · Answer

Yes.

SirRexington · Answer

Those are called simps.

Countrywildmangirl · Answer

Yeah they can

StarGayle · Answer

Yes its possible

Shark_61695 · Answer

Yes, I think it is something I'm looking for.

bannacookies · Answer

Yes.

Gedaria · Answer

Yes , that sounds like fun...

DiversityHire · Answer

I don't know, but I'd love to find out. 😄

aly34 · Answer

Yes everything is possible

andy530 · Answer

Those are the best kind

LexyIsSexy23 · Answer

Not to my knowledge

simplelikeme · Answer

Yes in many ways

yesier11 · Answer

Very silky panties get me bad

Jltakk · Answer

Of course that exists.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, isn’t that just most women?

PeytonVB · Answer

Yes I do believe so.

jose_daniel_munoz · Answer

Sometimes if you want him to be

Adamskelvin · Answer

Yeah, if he stick with truth

maxthestiber · Answer

Yeah

Anonymous · Answer

I don't understand what the question is asking

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Sure...

COMMODOREII · Answer

I guess so.

QueenOfBaku · Answer

I don’t know

BronzedAdonis · Answer

sure

littleredhead · Answer

I see why not

yourfavperson · Answer

Yes.

Travis9 · Answer

Never

zyentz · Answer

Sometime need it

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