Honestly how does a scammer get a girlfriend to even lend him money?

I've been hearing about these scammers and con artists that like draining money out of their gfs and never pays back.
They aren't just in for the sex but for money too. Honestly how on earth do they even get a woman to lend him money?
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The girls that got robbed of their money really thought that was the man of their dream, that he wanted a family with them as promised.

Obviously if he's asking her for money, how is he going to provide for a family? That's a red flag that he's a loser. I'm puzzled by how those scammers even get a woman to give him money.
Honestly how does a scammer get a girlfriend to even lend him money?
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