Girl. Do girls take advantage of a guy that's super sweet kind and generous And use them for their money?

[Anonymous]

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

No… I broke it off with him, it wasn’t a relationship, we were just dating for 2 months. I was trying to get over my ex at that time and just wanted to have fun dating. I wasn’t emotionally attached or attracted to him not even a little.

I broke it off because we wanted different things, he was generous and cute, he wanted marriage and he told me he loved me, but I wasn’t into him. I didn’t feel the connection, nor mental nor physical. I felt like he said those things but he didn’t mean it. I didn’t feel like he was genuine.

I didn’t feel connection with him and I didn’t want to use him, just because he offered comfort, money and stability.

I’d much rather him offer me an emotional connection.

I also disliked kissing him.

[Finchie40]

Yes for the most part , a lot of girls’ seek men for money , thinking he will take care of her, so she doesn’t have to work , Word of advice don’t date girls’ that don’t have job s , that don’t work , that aren’t independent, she is more
Than likely a Gold digger that will spend all your money and put you in a financial crisis and blame you for not making more money. When you go broke Or she will go spread her legs to another Guy that she feels Makes more money than you do , Never get into a relationship with a girl that can’t provide for herself , you can fuck her but don’t commit to her. I have witnessed so many girls leaving or cheating on their husbands when he lost his job. That isn’t love , that is being used. Kick those bitches to the curb where they belong

[JuanDong]

As sure as the sun rises in the East. A man must stay alert to scams, sob stories, grifting, and other ways of being milked (or nickle-and-dimed) for funds. There is no shortage of parasites, golddiggers, and grifters.
HOWEVER, it behooves men to learn about these negatives because it makes finding genuinely sweet and generous women easier to find. There are many out there. There is.

The quickest way to get suckered in to be an ATM is to allow your little head to make any decisions. You are doomed if you do.

[Altheavas]

Depends on $ bills or a guy that actual is able to earn great income…!!
The ones who earn, smart, has great income, being sweet is just a farce, they have an objective. Or maybe they might stupidly sweet and genuine about it, because they can’t keep their guards up cause their feeling is genuine.
$bill guy either he is trying his best, however, what does he has really to give and complain about a woman taking from him!

[DermalPunch]

I think guys disregard women who are easygoing who don't make demands and show appreciation for small things as not enough of a chase so they go after the women who are more demanding and difficult because they are stuck in their ego and those women know how to play on that. Then they get hurt and traumatized and are distrustful of genuine women. Men do it to themselves. They always drop a good thing and regret it.

[Billlewis]

I agree with the first part of your comment, but I don't seek out selfish, demanding women to assuage my ego, but simply because I enjoy serving them.

[pickles77]

Right cause we have a desire to provide and take care of someone so we want that we just don’t want to be taken advantage of

[nastyb]

because guys who are "super sweet kind generous" are usually not actually nice. they're just pretending so they can get a girl. girls can sniff through that easily. we, girls, are smarter than you think.

Girls like alpha males, not pansies who would pay us to be with them.

[pickles77]

If you let them they will. You have to make right decisions and decide if it’s necessary or even right. For the materialist money will never satisfy them. It’s not designed to and they will endlessly take. Don’t fall for it. It’s doesn’t help someone to satisfy their addiction

[patrick994]

Many girls do it, but it has to be said that if these girls behave this way it is because there are men who allow them to do it, if men were less condescending some women would not take advantage of it.

[Bekaaaaaaaahhhh]

Some do but woman are more sensitive than men so it’s not a lot of woman that would do that long term

[JuanDong]

Women tend to run multiple schemes, for a shorter time. Schemes are both parallel (>1 man at a time) or serial (1 man at a time). Once a guy gets wise or goes broke, it's time to move on.

[Dinklex3]

?

Some do, some don’t.

Just like some men take advantage of sweet, kind, and generous women and use them for their money.

[aceleon]

yes it screams take advantage of me.

a man should only be sweet when he is with kids or pets, or maybe before or after the sex that's it.

[IslaTheWitch]

I'm not into "super sweet kind and generous" guys, so for sure I don't

[DextroShade]

They absolutely do, often times they will extract money, time, and attention from the guy and then friend-zone him so they don't have to reciprocate with sex. It is truly reprehensible and it incentivizes guys to not be nice to women.

[Unit1]

That's like painting a target on your body and writing on your forehead "I have resources"!

Were men not taught to protect themselves from gold diggers?

[kellytheman]

I have been used by a couple girls when they thought I had some money and asking cash from me all the time. I been burn a couple times getting cheat on.

[ProbablyClueless]

They would probably be way more likely to use a guy like that for attention and affection.

[pethouse]

I’m sure some do. I’d go more in depth into it but I’m so hyped up on coffees that I’ll have to tell you later.

[Anonymous]

Not all. But a large amount do. It's a man's duty to spot the users and learn from these experiences. And not make the same mistake twice.

[Billlewis]

A few of them do, but not nearly enough:)

[Raaj4you]

Most of the women do use men.

[turnpost]

Do guys, use women? Yes

[12karen]

No, I'll be feeling so bad.

[KrakenAttackin]

All the time. Simp nation is a real thing.

[PrettyCrumblBb]

Some girls do. Some don't.