How do con artists/scammers get women to give them money?

[ChicanaChick]

I've never asked anyone for money and definitely don't give out my money.

However I've heard cases of con artists and scamming bfs getting money from women. How do they do that? How do they even get a woman to give them money?

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+1 y

Those women hardly ever get their money back. What on earth do they do to convince women to give them money?

[lightbulb27]

they are emotionally manipulative people... fundamentally, they are liars that predate on personalities that are empathetic and giving in their nature. Study up on "human traffickers"... how they pick their victims, this is all written down in books how they think. It's the same sicknesses.

The think is... these people feel good hurting others, they don't care about others, they are functioning out of a certain personality and emotional wounds. They are in essence... self loathing... often.

Watch out... get educated, and be educated. Just an estimate, 10%+ of personalities are like this.

[ChicanaChick]

Hopefully most of them eventually get caught and jailed.

[lightbulb27]

haha, not close, they get promoted. unless they are caught, but these people are smart, but power and control... corporations love that in managers and execs.

[Anonymous]

Even educated women with successful careers fall victim to this. Romance scams. Some guy pretends to be **rich** but after some wining and dining, tells the lady he "needs some money" for some new business deal or some bullshit. They might wonder why, if he is rich, he needs the money. But they always have some bullshit answer. It is terrible how many fall victim to this. There are lots of guys sitting in prisons who got caught doing this. How many are out there who didn't get caught? I don't know. The lesson is, to BE AWARE. No one who is supposedly **rich** will be asking you for money for a business deal. If he is really well to do, he can sell stock or other assets to raise the money.

[ChicanaChick]

Great to hear a lot are in prison for that scam. It's still amazing that even an educated woman falls for that. I knew not to give anyone money even as a kid and when to be distrustful but I guess some learn the hard way.

[jennifer_bloom]

I never give money to people who ask for it or to people who frame their conversation in a way that suggests they want me to offer them money. I might give them pocket change if I know them through mutual friends and don't want them to ruin my reputation by saying no when they ask me for money and food. But I draw the line at hotdogs and bus tickets. Nobody is getting a house or a car from me.

[Kaneki05]

It's not hard. A girl offered to send me money once just because I was talking about been low on money I told her no, I wouldn't take that I'll be fine and I was.
She hadn't known me for long so I wouldn't imagine it would be hard to scam someone for money if I tried.
And the people who do scam people for money often target people they think will be weak enough so they have even more chance.

To many humans are trusting when they shouldn't be sadly.

[ChicanaChick]

There should be more like you out there, not destroying people's trust nor taking advantage of others. I had some streetsmarts even as a kid but yeah more women should learn when not to trust nor give out money to others.

[Summeroflove]

They usually make them feel bad for them or love bomb them. It’s unfortunate. Many times they prey on women who are lonely and desperate.

Many times people also take advantage of people with good hearts

[ChicanaChick]

That's the sad part that. All those women wanted was either companionship or love and those lowlife scammers likely destroy whatever self confidence and remaining trust she had left.

[Summeroflove]

Yeah it’s really sad

[20yearsolder]

Send me 29.95 And I'll give you a detailed answer. It'll answer every question you ever wanted to know

[ChicanaChick]

more than 29.95 laughers

[ChicanaChick]

**more like 29.95 laughters

[slatyb]

There same way women get men to give them money. They promise affection to lonely people, gain their trust, then ask for money.

[ChicanaChick]

It amazes me how anyone can fall for that rookie trick. I knew even as a kid that you don't give anyone money.

[slatyb]

There was a question on GAG just the other day from a man who reported that he was 64 and had received nude pictures from someone he believed was a 30-year-old woman somewhere overseas. "Have you had live chat with them?" "No"

[misogynistic_pig]

They are looking for a woman older than forty or thirty years, at that age their cognitive processes are deteriorated.

[Curmudgeon]

Actually, not so much their cognitive processes have deteriorated, as much as their romantic prospects have. THAT's when they really start falling for the con artists.

[ChicanaChick]

I hope those scammers get busted and exposed all over the internet. Then again, I knew as a kid not to give out money to others. I think that's a basic rule everyone should know.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I’ve no idea. I thought it was usually guys getting scammed by other guys pretending to be girls

[ChicanaChick]

It happens to women too. Those scammers prey on the weak.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I’m not sure what they say to girls then