My husband told me he has feelings for another girl but loves me and is not willing to stop talking to other girl because she's a friend?

[Anonymous]

[billmunch]

I was with the same woman for 14 years and she had a boyfriend during years 7 through 10 of our relationship. She didn't really even try to hide the fact. I was okay with it because this sort of thing isn't a deal breaker for me - a bad attitude is and my girlfriend was always pleasant. I just figured she wanted to have a bit of fun and just get it out of her system.

[IJhonnyI]

Bro "has feelings for another girl" "isn't gonna stop talking to her because she's just a friend" both red flags no need for explanation leave him

[bones_20]

Ok and? Do you plan to leave him or stay with him? If he’s saying he’s not willing to stop talking to someone he has feelings for, then he’s pretty much saying he’ll cheat because those feelings will only progress. Are you ok with that?

[Asker]

no ☹️ just hurt

[bones_20]

And rightfully so. I don’t know you as a person, but I’m sure you deserve way better than this.

[Asker]

Thank you i appreciate it.

[bones_20]

I just hope you can realise it.

[jshm2]

As long as talking is all he's doing there is nothing wrong. Just ensure you tell him that you will look to divorce when things go south though.

[Mate100]

That's a red flag for you

[Wise4myage]

Time for divorce court.

[Sabretooth]

this is bad.