My husband has feelings for someone else?

[Anonymous]

My man he said he can have good feelings and like other women even though I'm here. Do you think that's okay?

[Anonymous]

To hell with what we or what anyone else thinks, it’s your relationship and you’re the one who has to deal with it so what do YOU think? If we all said it’s no big deal would it suddenly not matter anymore?

[Asker]

Is it supposed to be like this? He feels good and likes someone else. Doesn't it seem selfish? Because I sincerely love and have never even thought about feeling good or having feelings for anyone except him. If your boyfriend tells you that I feel good and like your friend, how would you feel? And how would you tell your boyfriend? 🥺

[Opinion Owner]

you're the one with has to decide what it should be like within your own relationship. In a general sense, I don’t think that’s ok and I wouldn’t stay with a man who admitted to liking other women, just as I don’t agree with open relationships or hall passes yet those dynamics are very functional (even encouraged) with some couples. It sounds to me like your boyfriend doesn’t see an issue with liking other women, but if you do then leave him. It’s a hard choice but one you should always be ready to make if worst came to worst.

[Opinion Owner]

**you’re the one who has to decide**

[Asker]

Thank you very much.🤍

[Opinion Owner]

Any time 🤍

[Booklover_90]

Ewww! What a slimy bastard. No, that’s not okay. Not okay at all. I don’t care what he has told you. It’s a crock of crap. You deserve way better. You deserve someone who loves only you and has eyes for only you. Yucccck. Sorry. I can’t stand “men” like your husband. 🤮

[Asker]

🤍🤍

[avery58]

No, it's emotionally cheating by definition. Your boundaries and choosing what you're fine with or what you consider cheating is for you to set, not him. If you consider that cheating or disrespectful then it is.

[Asker]

🤍🤍

[DishLady]

Do YOU think it’s ok? Come on, woman… monogamy “till death do us part” is supposed to be the deal. You know that. So should he.

[HelpfulWoman]

why is he your husband?

[Asker]

yes why ~ 🥺