Hi any chance friends out there can give me a opinion or help on this one thanks?

[Anonymous]

hi i have fell out with my ex boyfriend 6 months ago we have still been talking for ghat amounf of time iam trying my absolute best to block him but its seems hard he cheated on me and choose that other girl he's with and i have been told the no contact rule works to make him understand that what he did was wrong and that i dont care and see if he comes chasing me again it gives me time to heal aswel but after being 6 months as friends a do u think it will work iam willing to try it now defos?

[spartan55]

Why would him to 'chase you' again? Are you just glossing over the fact that he is a piece of shit cheater? You really want him back? Why? So he can cheat on you again?

[Asker]

ure so correct but its hard to stop talking to him even though i know i should stop talking or i won't move on with a nice guy a better guy it still quit hard cause i do hate him he's a asshole but in a way my heads saying stsy then the other have is saying leave as much as i know leave is the best why am i not able to do it its confusing u know

[Jamie05rhs]

So you're trying to get back together with him now? (Just making sure I understand the question correctly.)

[Asker]

yeah that was the correct way to understand but its a waste of time to be honest he is a asshole for hitting me nd a socked him back but i dont know how to stop talking to him without greeving to much but a may not move on if i stay talking to him but how do it without crying more its difficult you know

[Jamie05rhs]

Wow- he cheated on you AND he hit you? Sheesh! You definitely made the right call by breaking up with him.

I would recommend NOT getting back together with him at all. Just leave him in the past and move forward with your life. You don't need his shit.

[Asker]

thank you great answer

[Jamie05rhs]

You're very welcome.

[Asker]

your opinion was great nd ure right he's a idiot

[Jamie05rhs]

Thanks!

[Asker]

this new girl he's with that he choose is in a wheelchair and she talk very slow he's hit her once before so how is he suppose to deffend herself if she can't walk he use to take her out everywhere he found out nd not me four or five walks he went with me the full 3 years he was with me i stsrted going out with him 2018 then he started this cheating shit in 2020 she said January 23rd snakey low life crule fucker i dont hate the girl it wasn't her fault she was nice to me me and so was i to her aswel its all his fault for hurting us both

[Jamie05rhs]

Aw man. That's terrible. She needs to leave him as well.

[Asker]

ano geezo dicrace it is she does need to get away aaking to sleep with me thsts bad if he has a girlfriend he obv doesn't love her that much he does call her baby nd says he loves her not be anymore obv cause iam his ex but he's obv usimg her like he was me when i was with him because he does say he loves her but if he truly did love her he wouldn't be asking me to sleep with him am i right

[Asker]

plus a lot of people say he's witb her because of benifit money but he gets his benifits like me but he kinda is a money robber a member he asked me for money for jumper he had and trainers he bpught still in good condition but i shod have got them for nothing as being his girlfriend at this point

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes. You're absolutely right.

Oh, really? Dang

[Asker]

yip and iam strong but walking away am not but at least i can turn around nd say i like his new girlfriend most women would find that hard if they still loved a guy that went with another girl but she didn't do anything nd am fine with her deep down it hurts so bad really that a just want to tell her thats he asking me to sleep with him and going to visit but a won't hurt her she will find out eventually it her job to find out he's none of my buisness ehat he does just like my buisness who i talk to or see is not his concern anymore but i think am a strong women for saying and telling him i dont hate her its him a hate that takes a lot of guts but i dont lie and not shy i tell everyone straight especially men

[Jamie05rhs]

You really should tell her, if there's any way possible to do so.

[Asker]

its not my place a dont want to hurt her

[Asker]

she will find out nd suss the basterd out one day like i did

[Jamie05rhs]

I don't see how you would be hurting her if he's the one who's doing it to her. But okay.

[Asker]

i kind of understand what ure saying i was thinking the same thing but people just say dont get involved let her suss it out herself like u did nd then she will learn her lesson not to go near him again

[Aliismyusername]

Dude, move smarter. That is not a potential suitor anymore. A good rule is don't hook back up with a cheater. Have some respect for yourself g

[Asker]

everyone has told me this ure right yeah respect myself good choiveawl try my best anyway harder

[PastorJohn69]

You need to just separate yourself from the situation. Hardest step... buy it all falls into place from there

[Asker]

so just walk away and block him u mean to get him out my head is that what you mean

[Asker]

just dont stay his griend you mean if u pm me awl tell u how it started uwl probs think iam a idiot for even wanting to stay his friend after what happend

[PastorJohn69]

Yes exactly. It's hard to do I know, and it's hard to stick with it at first, there will come a point where your head will clear and you know from there

[Asker]

ure so correct thank u

[Guy13]

If it was me, I would not get involved with that again

[Asker]

you know what ure right defo

[Asker]

a was his friend but its quit difficult to stop speaking to him without greeving more but i do think he is a asshole but still something there but ure right why am i being stupid