LOL, I'm not going to lie, the red flag list is for sure signs I look for that means "run, run very fast and for as far as possible." lol.
However, a lot of the Green Flags are not needed for me. In fact very few of them. I just a down to Earth, no drama woman who is also a beast in the bedroom, lol.
Is that serious or are they simply taking the piss? Love to know what turkey came up with that list 😜
Apart from that, forget the religion BS for a green flag, that should be in the red flag 😝
What's missing in the red flag list is if they take pharmaceuticals, narcotics, smoke, weed or cigarettes or drink alcohol to fix their issues 🤔 Alcohol and weed are listed, but this should be mentioned specifically for the purpose of self-medication 😏
Out of that list? I find cardi funny but thats about it. I dont have any of those other red flags. As for the green flags, i dont eat steak fajitas nor bake nor listen to Thomas. My hair is not long and i hardly wear dresses. Wtf is a goat lady? I only drink sweet tea and i dont churn butter but i’ll churn a dick lmao
Remove Cardi B and Vegan. And honestly Red Flags becomes the most green I've ever seen. Meanwhile Green Flags has some which are fine normal things that wouldn't make me jump out of the seat but not bad then has just very bad things aswell so no thanks to that side.
Well, my wife is 5/10 from the Green side and 0/10 from the Red flags. A few of them are a bit on the extreme side. In all fairness, I wouldn't exactly complain if she could learn to twerk - even a little bit! ;- )
I disagree on the cat lady point. I could not have a relationship with a woman who did not adore cats. Of course, my cats would also have to approve of her. What is a goat lady? I assume there is more involved than a woman who likes goats.
I drink alcohol on occasion :-). I’m sure there are some men who might shame my husband for making less money than me, but I don’t think that makes me a feminist :-). Fun question!
From what I am reading I would fit in a lot of guys lives. One lucky guy has got me already. Married with kids.
😌 Hope it sticks, been with him since 15.
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Overall though, everyone is different and what they want in a partner and how they can understand each other or help each other grow in life as well as find peace in it.
If you want a man who wants you be yourself and do not try so hard to fulfill someone else's fantasy be each other's lives. Be each other's company and learn how to be your best selves or simply find acceptance in who you are. ♥️
I always said this to my husband which is kinda confusing to me.
Why do some people look to find a partner that will like manly things if they are straight.
Why do they try to attract a woman like they would a male friend if they are looking to attract a woman not a male?
Not all women are the same so, why not try to simply get to know her and what she likes and her get to know him and what he likes?
No judgement, just learning, just appreciating each other for each other's differences.
There are things you will feel are not something that you can be okay with about the person you meet which is okay, this means it's best to move on if it's not something you can live with.
This is why dating is important, you get to know them and allow room for friendship, then you both decide if certain things are not for you in this person and move on to someone else who fits your life now and possibly in the future. Someone who will move alongside you as well as you with them.
what? are these wife seekers from stoneage or what huhh
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This must be a joke 💀all the „red flags“ are green flags excepr maybe the Cardi B part. But I totally lost it at „traditionl christian“ being a green flag tf 😂 this list sounds like it’s out of a 70 yo grumpy grandpa‘s head who believes masturbating sends you straight to hell
Most of the Red Flags are green and the green flags vomit inducing red flags.
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It's not a bad list. The items I might remove from the red flag list are: -knows how to twerk (coordination isn't a bad thing) -drinks alcohol (as long as it isn't to excess) -smokes weed (VERY occasionally is okay)
The green flags seem a bit more of a joke so won't even bother.
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Not that many. But those red flags I do have are generally deal breakers. Because those red flags signify if they're a decent person or not. We're all flawed people and you have to accept the bad parts along with the good. Especially as you age. Because generally we all start off in relatively the same place. But throughout life you gain baggage. And much of it is a matter of circumstance.
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LOL, I'm not going to lie, the red flag list is for sure signs I look for that means "run, run very fast and for as far as possible." lol.
However, a lot of the Green Flags are not needed for me. In fact very few of them. I just a down to Earth, no drama woman who is also a beast in the bedroom, lol.
Is that serious or are they simply taking the piss? Love to know what turkey came up with that list 😜
Apart from that, forget the religion BS for a green flag, that should be in the red flag 😝
What's missing in the red flag list is if they take pharmaceuticals, narcotics, smoke, weed or cigarettes or drink alcohol to fix their issues 🤔 Alcohol and weed are listed, but this should be mentioned specifically for the purpose of self-medication 😏
Out of that list? I find cardi funny but thats about it. I dont have any of those other red flags. As for the green flags, i dont eat steak fajitas nor bake nor listen to Thomas. My hair is not long and i hardly wear dresses. Wtf is a goat lady? I only drink sweet tea and i dont churn butter but i’ll churn a dick lmao
Remove Cardi B and Vegan. And honestly Red Flags becomes the most green I've ever seen.
Meanwhile Green Flags has some which are fine normal things that wouldn't make me jump out of the seat but not bad then has just very bad things aswell so no thanks to that side.
No extreme religious dogma
No extrene diet dogma
Twerking and baking is ok.
Having babies is ok.
Listen to whomever you want, as long as you don't get dumb from it.
Healthy hair, dyes are probably full of toxic chemicals.
Neither sunglasses or nose ring.
Everything in moderation. re-state://background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (77, 77, 77), justifyLeft
both goats and cats are good.
Well, my wife is 5/10 from the Green side and 0/10 from the Red flags. A few of them are a bit on the extreme side.
In all fairness, I wouldn't exactly complain if she could learn to twerk - even a little bit! ;- )
Green flags sound like something from the amish good house wife play book.
For real, "churns butter" is a green flag? Give me a break 😂
@JohannaSm Seriously, I grew up on a farm... I have never seen anyone churn butter.
I disagree on the cat lady point.
I could not have a relationship with a woman who did not adore cats.
Of course, my cats would also have to approve of her.
What is a goat lady? I assume there is more involved than a woman who likes goats.
My cat Allister *APPROVES* this comment!
I have a nose ring and I bake
That's all from that list...
I drink alcohol on occasion :-). I’m sure there are some men who might shame my husband for making less money than me, but I don’t think that makes me a feminist :-). Fun question!
3 lol which alone should tell you how stupid that graphic is. That's shit that American conservatives tend to like.
Does this even count as conservative? this seems more like an estranged redneck hoofing it out in the boonies.
Which is a large swath of conservatives lol at least those who identify as conservative
From what I am reading I would fit in a lot of guys lives. One lucky guy has got me already. Married with kids.
😌 Hope it sticks, been with him since 15.
Overall though, everyone is different and what they want in a partner and how they can understand each other or help each other grow in life as well as find peace in it.
If you want a man who wants you be yourself and do not try so hard to fulfill someone else's fantasy be each other's lives. Be each other's company and learn how to be your best selves or simply find acceptance in who you are. ♥️
I always said this to my husband which is kinda confusing to me.
Why do some people look to find a partner that will like manly things if they are straight.
Why do they try to attract a woman like they would a male friend if they are looking to attract a woman not a male?
Not all women are the same so, why not try to simply get to know her and what she likes and her get to know him and what he likes?
No judgement, just learning, just appreciating each other for each other's differences.
There are things you will feel are not something that you can be okay with about the person you meet which is okay, this means it's best to move on if it's not something you can live with.
This is why dating is important, you get to know them and allow room for friendship, then you both decide if certain things are not for you in this person and move on to someone else who fits your life now and possibly in the future. Someone who will move alongside you as well as you with them.
what? are these wife seekers from stoneage or what huhh
This must be a joke 💀all the „red flags“ are green flags excepr maybe the Cardi B part.
But I totally lost it at „traditionl christian“ being a green flag tf 😂 this list sounds like it’s out of a 70 yo grumpy grandpa‘s head who believes masturbating sends you straight to hell
From this list 6 red flags and 3 green ones. Well maybe even up to 7 red flags depending when something starts counting.
My list of red flags.
1. Feminist
2. pro choice
3. lgbtq bullshit
4. Libtard
5. Vegan
6. nose ring
7. smokes weed.
A lot of them are true. Some... Really depends but overall yea. I mean we all have our own standards but oh for sure a lot of these are true.
Most of the Red Flags are green and the green flags vomit inducing red flags.
It's not a bad list. The items I might remove from the red flag list are:
-knows how to twerk (coordination isn't a bad thing)
-drinks alcohol (as long as it isn't to excess)
-smokes weed (VERY occasionally is okay)
The green flags seem a bit more of a joke so won't even bother.
Not that many. But those red flags I do have are generally deal breakers. Because those red flags signify if they're a decent person or not.
We're all flawed people and you have to accept the bad parts along with the good. Especially as you age. Because generally we all start off in relatively the same place. But throughout life you gain baggage. And much of it is a matter of circumstance.