How many of these things would you consider dating red flags?

[Anonymous]

Doesn't have social media

Has debt

Doesn't have a lot of friends, or people around them

Been single for years

Doesn't want to introduce you to their parents/family, because they have a disconnect with many of them

Has a history of being taken advantage of by other people

None would fit my criteria of a red flag

1 would

2 of those things would

3 of those things would

4 of those things would

5 of those things would

All of them would

[strateguy632]

red flags? let's see!

1, ? Doesn't have social media, means no friends? those aren't real friends anyway. for a gal no tik tok selfies no only fans is a PLUS.

ALSO since 2010 no facebook etc. is a PLUS for everyone because less causes of STRESS by trolls baiting. the reAl ones i mean. not peope who wrote unpopular opinions, who get called trolls, just the ones who make up stories! to trigger people!

2? Has debt, depends how much. almost everyone pays credit cards slowly...

especially now with biden-economy biden-flation not indicate bad but... if has 3 or more credit cards that is red flag. go shopping see what they waste money on! gadgets or fancy shoes red flag!

the platinum rule:

0 or 1 credit card bad.

2 good

3 cards or more terrible.

3, ? Doesn't have a lot of friends, or people around them? means zero frends, this is a red flag but most people are far from popular. 1

4, ? Been single for years, probably involuntary. fine.

5, ? Doesn't want to introduce you to their parents/family, because they have a disconnect with many of them? sadly COMMON in west and worse ever since idiots like jen lawrence incites her million FANS to hate their family for politics! she is a real sicko! ruining society with her vileness, so not a red flag.

in fact most people feel ashamed of some relatives, parents/siblings or doesn't want to be associated with them, "just get to know me!" also "don't hear my siblings saying exagerated stuff" fine.

6, ? Has a history of being taken advantage of by other people, depends if they tell the story that is a plus if they say in general that is a red flag playing the vuctim mindset so ask "what did they do to you" then you can decide.

so 1 is plus, just one red if zero frends.

the rest are fine. in the west. in India or other cultures no family is a second red flag.

[Kaneki05]

Probably just the debt one as it's bad to be in debt but tbf that wouldn't change much in me liking someone.

[Anonymous]

These are not red flags! It’s called boundaries and this is America! We gonna have debt in life somewhere. I don’t see any problems with what you listed

[OtterMan68]

Debt and family issues

[Imsmurter1]

5 out of 6 of them.

[Asker]

Which one isn't?

[Imsmurter1]

Been single for a few years.