I have Asperger’s and haven’t dated at 28 y/o, so I’m looking for pinpoint support. What should I focus on based on this 45 second clip?

I’d say my weight is the most obvious indicator and I’ve been on a diet plan for 2 months. There may be other stuff like my clothes or wearing glasses that may be affecting me badly. I’d truly appreciate the support!

Here’s the clip:
https://m.imgur.com/a/aPKnmE0
I have Asperger’s and haven’t dated at 28 y/o, so I’m looking for pinpoint support. What should I focus on based on this 45 second clip?
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