Girls, In a relationship do you give up all your aspirations, wants, things that make you happy?

[Anonymous]

In order to focus on trying to make and keep your partner happy. And then it’s too late for the things u wanted to do in life.

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+1 y

If your a people pleaser and afraid of upsetting people and feeling the guilt of not living up to peoples expectations or wants.

[inquisitivequeen]

Not in the beginning, but if I start to feel that way, like I’m changing and not for the better, then it’s time to start weighing my options. Leave vs stay

[LazerBean]

No, one of the points of being in a relationship is to make both people's lives better and happier lmao

[Crankor]

If you can't do what you want in a relationship then it stops being a relationship.

[jennifer_bloom]

There was a time where no woman had jobs and all they did was take care of their kids and husbands. The working woman is a modern invention.

[ChillTime101]

No. You should not have to give up all of what makes you happy just for one person. The point of a relationship is for both people to be happy. You shouldn't have to change yourself for someone else. I am definitely a people pleaser but I still want to be able to enjoy the things I do while in a relationship. If your not able to do so and its all about one person and what they want then I would really start thinking weather or not it's for the better to move on or at least talk to them about it.

[WhitneySnow]

I don’t think anyone girl or guy should do that