Women tolerate cheating boyfriend; 2 married the guy & divorced in 3-5 years for misstep. Why? It seems backwards? Isn’t married, for life? Woman 🤷?

[Guy13]

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alright...

[Vide_Noir]

The thing is, married is for life in a committed relationship. You don't cheat, it's not a misstep it is cheating. After that, everything is over, either way

[Anonymous]

Heck if I know.
My wife knows I have an other woman, she's indifferent about it.

[SecretsofKB]

I don't care if I've been married to my partner 5 seconds, 5 years, or 50 years... if they cheat, I'm done.

[Guy13]

Okay…so you’re close enough to my age. My inclination is to recognize the possibility of failure in Beings. As I understand marriage, it’s a covenant.-old song-got to find it..
Anyway, blowing covenant all up over indiscretion make sense? Do I blow up a lease (contract/covenant) because he’s late on Rent at least once a quarter? And to me, Lease is a lesser covenant.
Anyway…Your know I will if cheats… How did you arrive at that place of Certainty?
—Both of my friends, one at 22 and one at 27 blew it up even though each of their spouses cheated prior to marriage…. it’s more serious now and they blow up covenant. It makes no sense🤷🏻‍♂️

[SecretsofKB]

I've been cheated on before. The pain it caused me is something I realize it's not forgivable in my pinion.

Having sex with someone else isn't an accident or a mistake you make with good intentions.

It just isn't forgivable for me.