What levels of attention to your details from a love interest or love disinterest is too much or just plain annoying to you?

I noticed you didn't sniff your fart this morning, wtf is going on?

No but for real I know how easy it is to fall into this possessive or obsessive sort of person. I've been there and I've had a few women as overly attentive for me. So what's your limit and what turns you off?
What levels of attention to your details from a love interest or love disinterest is too much or just plain annoying to you?
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