Was my frustration valid?

[Anonymous]

So I have been in a relationship for almost 5 months and everything is going well... So I am Dutch and we go anywhere we want to by bike. But one day I forgot to bring my bike with me because my boyfriend picked me up by car and dropped my off at work. After work I thought it would be nice to have a drink with a few friends but then I realised I didn't have my bike with me. The moment I realised I had't had my bike with me it was already 2am and to walk home it would have taken me 20 minutes. As a girl its very dangerous to walk alone around this time especially because the streets are quiet and it was dark. I called my boyfriend to ask him if it was okay to pick me up so I could sleep at his place and he simply said no and left me in a - in my opinion - very dangerous situation.. I tried to explain why I was so frustrated about it and he still doesn't understand what I was trying to say or he just didn't wanna understand my point. He gave me the feeling if my frustration about this situation wasn't valid... but I think it is right?

[Vendela]

I cannot fathom my boyfriend telling me no, even if it was broad daylight and I needed to be picked up he would drop everything and do that... But to just leave you there at 2:00 a. m? This is serious, you need to break up with him. This isn't a fluke or a mistake, he has just shown you very blatantly that he does not care about your safety or well-being.

[SaartjieJane]

I’d be just as mad at you, he sounds like an asshole

[A_stranger]

Your frustration is valid, he shouldn't have just said no and leave you in a dangerous situation. But what's his side of the story? Did he have any reason for not coming to pick you up?

[Asker]

He said it was too late and he didn't wanna leave his house that late

[A_stranger]

So he lives alone? Or way too far from your location?

[Asker]

He lives 15 min away from me by car but I usually make it easier for if by taking the bus to a busstop 5 min away from him by car

[Asker]

So no he does not live far from my location

[A_stranger]

He should have come to pick you up then...

[spartan55]

Wtf? Your boyfriend is a fucking shithead... I wouldn't even think of letting my girlfriend walk home... wow.