Am I wrong for feeling frustrated?

[Anonymous]

My friends and I really want to go to Japan, however I don’t believe that’s going to happen anytime soon. Two of them don’t want to work, and both are full time students in college. One of them doesn’t want to work at all, and I honestly think she has the mentality of getting everything for free. She told me that her sticker business is better than retail, (which is fine) but barely makes enough. And she insists that she’s gotten through life so far without having a real paying job. I love my friends so much, but it’s a bit frustrating when we want to plan something big, but can’t because no one wants to work for their money. But maybe I’m in the wrong for feeling this way.

[SweetDumplings]

Just do it for free and by that I mean; cook Japanese food at home, decorate your place to look like Japanese culture, watch Japanese shows on your tv and play Japanese music, have a Japanese themed slumber party for free and you wouldn't have to worry about going to Japan because you can make your own little Japan at home for *free* might I add once again 😊

[Asker]

Lol it’s funny because we actually somewhat do this, cook ramen, watch anime, (I’m sorry we’re a little weebish 😂)

[SweetDumplings]

It's okay, just try something like this to make it work, omicron is out now so might be experiencing another lockdown and flights are going to not be available again and everything is messed up now so going to Japan would probably not be fun with how things are going right now so think if this as not the best time maybe in the future you all can go to Japan

[Asker]

Oof yeah you’re right, completely forgot about the whole omicron situation. Thank you so much for your sweet input ☺️

[SweetDumplings]

No problem 💜

[qwert1234]

No, it's ok to feel frustrated. Just, don't force them to do anything they don't want because in the end, it's their lives.

PS:
If you are my friend, I am totally down going to Japan lol.

[Asker]

Heck yeah haha