Is it wrong dating someone who assaulted me?

Anonymous

I met this guy recently ( we knew each other for a year but not close.) i just knew that he divorced because his wife cheated and he also has a son. i read his posts so things he said are real. I met him online from some apps, Our first date was just chatting in car i been feeling frustrated so he was there listening. We lost contact after that. maybe just few times receiving ig message from him.

After a year , He asked me out , drove me to his bar and started assaulting me even i asked him to stop. it happened in a sudden. i didn't know how should i react. i refused multiple times ( he putted his fingers in me and tried to take off my clothes. he finally stopped when i screamed and beg him not to )

Then He tried to convince me that he liked me long ago he texted me everyday and stopped when he saw me hanging out with another guy ( which is my best friend )

He said He got arrested for having drugs and been there half year so he wasn't able to contact me. he came out and asking me out was the first thing in his mind. He wants to date me but when i asked him when was my birthday what's my full name, he didn't even know. He didn't even send me flowers or anything...

Now we are dating. ( I'm sorry for that. i know this is dumb)

He morning texted me everyday and sometimes come to my place and drive me around. He also brought me to his friends.

looks like things went better but there's still sths weird about him. i feel like he's always partying (at night) in his own bar and not viewing my stories on ig. he posted things on facebook story frequently weird thing i only knew where he been though that.

Sometimes i don't feel like i know him... I know u will be questioning why i stay in this relationship...

The reason is i just thought a guy with conditions like this fits me ( he's a native with some lands and tall and strong looks like everything i need. i just don't like how he treated me... )

Is it wrong dating someone who assaulted me?
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