Is It Possible to Move on While Still Having Sex With Your Baby Daddy/ Child’s Father?

[Myamay1377]

Personally I’m starting to think that it isn’t possible. We’ve dated for years and got back in contact 6 months later. 2 years in a half later, we now have a 6 month old daughter. Yet this whole time we never officially got back together. At first I was okay with it because I didn’t want to have sex with anyone else but I’m starting to notice that feelings and love for him is still there and somedays they get in the way for me. Would it be best to cut it off or continue and just balance out detach my emotions?

[OlderAndWiser]

1. "Is It Possible to Move on While Still Having Sex With Your Baby Daddy/ Child’s Father?" No, for many, many reasons.

2. "2 years in a half later, we now have a 6 month old daughter." Brilliant. Fucking brilliant! Why?

3. "Yet this whole time we never officially got back together." That means you just agreed to keep fucking without any commitment, right?

4. "At first I was okay with it because I didn’t want to have sex with anyone else" Great justification!

5. "I’m starting to notice that feelings and love for him is still there and somedays they get in the way for me." Most people who are in a long term sexual relationship have feelings for their partner. What dd you think would happen?

6. "Would it be best to cut it off or continue and just balance out detach my emotions?" You have proven that you can't be unemotional so that is not an option.

[Guy13]

You know that’s not a doable situation..,

[boggboss]

Lol ofc its not why would u think it is

[Myamay1377]

Honestly I thought I could make the friends with benefit thing work.

[boggboss]

How when it's endgame is just the sex it would never work because u have invested feelings anyway

[MountAverage]

Nah. What you do is the opposite of moving on.

[Wise4myage]

No, that's impossible.

[LazerBean]

Nope.