If I think about him everyday , am I in love or is it just a crush?

[Anonymous]

When are you really in love in your opinion?
Symptoms:
I think about him everyday and wish to see him everyday
I feel love when I think about him
I wish to be his girl and have his babies
I wouldn't mind to only see him. Bc he is enough for me

[RuthlessAggression]

Do you see yourself being with any other man, especially if this one fails?

[SiberFox]

It's Infatuation, so a crush I think.

[In_Trance]

who is him? need context to this

[Asker]

A guy I've been talking to like everyday

[In_Trance]

How long?

[Asker]

Since the ending of February

[In_Trance]

My guess is you probably don't know him at all. How much time have you spent together?
If you really think something is there, why haven't either of you made a move?

[Asker]

Bc I'm a girl and I'm shy, and I think it's nicer when the guy makes the move , I would feel happier bc it's more romantic

[Asker]

So it's just a crush u think?

[In_Trance]

No shade, but I don't think there's anything here. You hang on to it because there's nothing else going on. This isn't even what you want.
How much can he like you if it's been this long and he's done nothing?

[Asker]

What's no shade?
And i never thought this would happen to me , it's been 5 years since my ex that I don't feel this way and I finally did with this dude, he is what I want. Actually I've never talked to a guys that I like this much his appearance and personality. He hasn't done much bc he doesn't want a relationship yet , he is 20 and I'm 26 and I've always been in a relationship, it would be too much if I get again into one , I would wait till I'm 30 because my heart is very weak right now , but at least he talks to me everyday , that's something that no guy does unless he is really interested don't u think?

[In_Trance]

You lost me at "doesn't want a relationship"

You do
This isn't what you want. This is purely circumstantial.
Spoiler alert - when a guy says this, it means he doesn't want one with you. Guys say this to keep options open while they find someone they do want.

You can't tell me if another guy came along just like this guy, only he was more aggressive in asking you out, developing a solid relationship etc. that you would turn him down because you feel there's a chance with this guy who hasn't and most likely won't ask you.

This is a time killer for both of you.