What was the biggest or best lesson you learned from your first relationship/breakup? (Page 2)

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We all learn lessons from what we do. However, in relationships or breakups, you might learn your most valuable lesson in life…  What was the biggest or best lesson you learned from your first (serious/real) relationship or breakup? If you haven’t had a relationship or breakup ,  what was the biggest or best lesson you learned from others’ relationships/breakups?  My answer:  In my first real and serious relationship/breakup, I learned that I need to have boundaries and that I cannot fix people or a relationship that simply can’t be fixed. I struggled with saying “no” and always putting in too much effort for something or someone that didn't do the same. This lesson helped me navigate through my current relationship with ease.

Anonymous · Answer

Never let anyone take advantage of you. I definitely learned that one after ex got out of jail I found out he was already back with his ex and I spent all of that money to get him out.

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Trust my gut but I'm a slow learner and need repeat lessons sometimes before it really sinks in.

more_than_a_guy · Answer

From my first, moderate my excitement, I was in an euphoria when I first got a relationship. Made me a little pushy.

Creampiekarl420 · Answer

The vagina and butthole are closer together than you think

TheCougarHunter · Answer

The lesson I learnt was, : Girls are always looking for a younger better-looking guy.

Shy_Steve · Answer

Don't lower my standards too far and make sure I can trust her.

driven159 · Answer

you can change anyone they are what they are and will be forever

EaterPeter · Answer

I love big tits and ass and would do anything to keep right set around.

Xtendable · Answer

I learned there are many types of dysfunctional families

SpaceGalaxy · Answer

From the first one... I learned NOT to ask a woman to have anal sex with me on out first date

Voppass · Answer

Dont need to fully connect to girls, until you learn who they are.

jimmy2 · Answer

Ohhh so many I think the best was getting family into church

Xoxocutekitty · Answer

girls can get friend zoned too.

MayMai3 · Answer

To focus on yourself and not settle

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

“Romantic love” is an endless series of lies.

GurlMaster40 · Answer

Know the person well before dating them.

lauraanne02 · Answer

Leave straight away if he "accidently" hits you

Anonymous · Answer

A lot of women are crazy, controlled by emotions.

belle_kai · Answer

To never settle. Set better boundaries

collie22 · Answer

when you fall in love you probably will get hurt

dtweed1996 · Answer

I learned a new couple will be tested in life

Lycanthropic · Answer

Don't date single moms.

summer_of_91 · Answer

I don't think I learned a lesson

Waldoe · Answer

well... it was 55 years ago... and I forgot

Preeti161101 · Answer

Don't quarrel on little things

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I learned that everybody can't be trusted

Spotifyplaylist · Answer

You are a lesbian...

Joanasehar · Answer

Wait and never believe in words, see his actions

abc3643 · Answer

What love is.

fireforeffect · Answer

Things will get better.

Thecubs22 · Answer

Communication would be one.

LovingLoverReturned · Answer

Trust gut.

vector44 · Answer

Never trust a friend with your family

moodyone · Answer

that i'm not desirable by females

Anonymous · Answer

Never trust a woman whose only into anal

ItsMykolaJenkins · Answer

Im a virgin

JamesRandiDebates · Answer

Bitches ain't loyal.

Anonymous · Answer

STAY SINGLE

Anonymous · Answer

Love don’t exist

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