Have you ever just grabbed somebody to leave a party with, so you wouldn't have to leave with nobody to love?

[Aerissa_Jade]

I know you're tired of loving, of loving
With nobody to love, nobody, nobody
So just grab somebody, no leaving this party
With nobody to love, nobody, nobody

I have actually done this, walked up to a guy and took him by the hand and said lets go... went out side next to the house and started kissing him and dancing outside away from everyone. Music was loud enough we could hear it just fine outside.

He did not mind at all, in fact he was quite surprised. Kept saying what a great kisser I was, wanting more tips on how to improve his kissing. 😂💋💋💋

Have you ever done what this song suggests?

[CrazyGirl2]

No! I’ve never even thought about doing anything like that. Jade sweetie, I think you are a LOT more adventurous than I am sexually speaking. (Of course you are also 8 years older than I,) and I’m thinking that maybe in 8 years I will likely be a lot more adventurous than I am now.
But, at this point in my psychosexual development, I need that emotional connection in order to do almost anything sexual with someone.
I envy your ability to disconnect the act of sex from the emotional connection… my sex life would vastly improve if I was able to do that! he he 😉

[Aerissa_Jade]

True, I can't say I would of done it at 19... heck at 19 I was ultra shy and couldn't even touch guys, so.

A lot changed through from 20 to 24 for me though. Being able to touch guys again, I had like a whiplash effect for trying to catch up from missing it for five years.

[CrazyGirl2]

Yeah, most of us have SOME kind of period of promiscuous behavior, after surviving rape! I often wondered why my mother put me on the pill right after I came forward and told her what was happening to me. Because the LAST thing I wanted at that point was any more penises inside me! Now that I’ve gone through a year of college and two psychology classes, I understand that a period of promiscuity is completely normal for girls/women like us. Especially younger women/girls! Some (like you) literally do not want to be touched, especially at first, then after a breakthrough psychologically, the floodgates open and it becomes a “let the sex begin” kinda thing. Others (like me) try to regain some power and control over our bodies and start giving blowjobs to any boy who’s even remotely cute. I hope that I will be in that better place by the time I’m 24.

[erandal]

Sure. I was at a friends wedding (went there alone), near the end I was feeling exhausted so went outside and got talking to another one of the guests. When the party finished we left together.

[Whatever2929292]

Well... I can't tell you if I have done it or been the victim of it... But I can tell you I don't go to degenerative parties but I like parties sometimes... Long as like I said they aren't degenerate. But that is sweet.

Just don't do something without permission. You never know who might be attracted to you or is in a relationship.

[MCheetah]

I think something only a woman could do. Wish I could get away with that. I'd be like...

https://www.youtube.com/embed/lQlIhraqL7o

[Aerissa_Jade]

The best 30 seconds of my life... the most true line in that song. 😂😂😂

[exitseven]

No, but I went with a friend to a New Years party at somebody's house. I did not know anybody there and felt kind of out of place. At midnight I was just standing in the living room watching the ball drop on the TV. This girl just grabs me and gives me this really passionate kiss. I had no idea who she was. She kissed me then she left.

[nawtee_me]

I think it would be easier for a girl to do than a guy to grab a girl and say lets go... lol I don't think I ever have.

[TrueConfection]

Go ahead, I dare you. 😂😂😂

[Aerissa_Jade]

The trick is they have to follow willingly, if they are a mule, stop. 😂😂

[slatyb]

There’s a rose in the fisted glove
And the eagle flies with the dove
if you can’t be with the one you love
Love the one you’re with.

[Lliam]

https://www.youtube.com/embed/HH3ruuml-R4

I've made out with a few random girls at parties and a couple times at the beach.

[TrueConfection]

I have not. It sounds fun, but not worth the risks that come with it.

[IsoUser]

I never have but my girl did 4 years ago now lol that's actually how we met, she grabbed my arm and I was like WTF we went out and had dinner and we've been together ever since 😍😉😁

[Juxtapose]

lol that doesn't work for men unless they are the top 10%.

[KostasKouvalis]

Yeah... I don't think that would work if the genders were reversed

[Jamie05rhs]

Lol. When a party is over, I go the f home.
I have my fun AT the party!

[H8INCHES]

That's F-ing hot! Guys can't get away with that. Too aggressive.

[UniquelyBasic]

Nope. I dont need to boost my ego.

[SilverRain92]

No never. It would be considered as a sexual harassment if I do something like that with a random girl

[Aerissa_Jade]

Only if you forced it, if you took her hand and dragged her sure... but if you was gentle about it and she went willingly, then no.

IF she don't want you touching her hand either, then don't.

[DizzyDesii]

I dont party nor do one night stands

[zagor]

Isn't that how Monkey Pox is spread?

[TallAnon]

Nope, I'm not that desperate.

[RuthlessAggression]

NO, I've not. i don't even like parties

[jahaims]

Nope, and that isn't love

[Guardian45]

No, I've never had the pleasure.

[Xtendable]

Yes, I didn't want the consolation prize

[CubaPirate]

Nah I'm not that insecure