Would you rather be a loser or party man?

[Anonymous]

if he uses the drug all the time but he is welestablished man would you be with him rather than you are with a loser?

I will be with a loser

I will be with party man

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[Smoke-n-Growls]

If he's successful, happy, well-adjusted, and has his own life and story that align well with me, I'm happy to date party man. I'm bringing drugs, too.

Losers are not my type. I literally cannot date people who are unambitious. It's gotten to the point I can't honestly have friends who are unambitious - I'll have acquaintances who are, but my closest friends are people who put in the work they need to do to get where they want to be.

[Snsl153]

NEITHER! People who abuse drugs are the real losers in my view, not those who avoid noisy, pointless parties.

[UniquelyBasic]

Im going to assume loser means being with a normal person so Ill pick the loser, I guess.

[Vesuvius87]

What exactly is a loser?
I think a party man getting drunk all the weekends and sleeping around is a loser to me.

[Anonymous]

A party man is a loser.

[WhitneySnow]

Define loser

[Asker]

a person who is defeated

[WhitneySnow]

Huh. I don’t think I know anyone like that. Not the way I think you mean it. So I’m afraid I won’t be able to answer your question except to say that I’d rather be single than date a drug addict, even if he is successful.