Do you believe their is someone out their for everyone?

[Alwayreckles93]

It's hard especially at my age I will be 30 next year and seems like man my generation all just go crazy over much younger woman with no life experiences. I am feeling bad about my self and men my age it's really hard. How long did it take to find the right person for you?

[Lliam]

I fell into infatuation and had girlfriends from the time I was 16. But I didn't start thinking about finding a life partner and settling down until I was in my mid-30s.

I met my future wife when I was 40 and she was 38. We tied the knot two years later and have been happily married now for over 25 years. I mean really happy. We've built a nice life together.

Yes, I believe there is someone for everyone. But it has a lot to do with timing, chance, and readiness. I'm not sure if there is one special person you are meant to be with. I think it's more a matter of finding a person who is right for you. There could be several people in the world who are right for you. You just have to find one of them. At that point, partners need to work to keep their relationship happy and healthy. Life is not a Disney movie.

[BeJames]

Both yes and no.

Yes meaning if we lower expectations low enough, we can always find "anyone" to fill the place next to us.

No meaning there isn't one specific person just waiting for us. It all happens gradually, but if we don't keep our eyes open and don't keep trying to find someone who would fit us, we might just miss them.

But 30 is still young enough to find unmarried guys. Around 30 is the age both medial doctors and PhDs finish all necessary formalities/studies and actually start living (if they decided to fully invest their best into studies) so you could aim for those smart guys.

[Alwayreckles93]

Well that's interesting 🤔 then why men your age always chase after 20 year old woman?

[BeJames]

I am afraid I won't be able to answer that since I do not chase after early twenties women. Though maybe you aim for guys who seek ONS? Have you met most of those guys in bars?
Normally, people with the endgame of marriage would aim for partner close to their own age so they can in the end grow old together.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Love works in mysterious ways & when it comes to the heart anything is possible & I do believe there is someone out there for everyone. In life where one door closes another one will open & when it comes to love where one relationship ends another one can start if you allow it to.

[DrewJay]

Some one once told me abouf twin flames I wanted to cry BS because I was a bit inbettered then for bieng a twin that actually had to fight with ny brother over who did what whis dreams was whos and being born with our own language my parents had to breaks us off. I believe in close bound so very greatly and I know there is some one for every one but its a mattter if two try

[HighValue]

I wouldn't be interested in someone 30 +, but I have no kids and do want some with the right person.
My suggestion if you pass 30 and are single is to give single fathers a try. they would be more accepting of the age. Either that or find someone that h as no interest in having kids.

[HighValue]

And sorry to say, but feminism lied to you. Having a good paying career and owning a house does not increase your appeal to the majority of good men that aren't lazy and looking for a free ride in life.
For many men, myself included, if a woman makes $50k plus and has a good career, that is just as good as a girl working at Taco Bell making $10k per year. It really doesn't increase my interest in her.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

It took me to age 28 then we were only together for 3-4 months and she broke it off with me I even gave her an engagement ring but she had issues going on mental health so I believe some of that could have done it also she was my first kiss too.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

no. u build things. they dont fall into ur lap typically. u wanna make a better life then u build a better one. u dont wait for mario to rescue u

[Alwayreckles93]

Woman your age are the problem.

[Alwayreckles93]

I own a house I own a paid of truck a good paying career I just need someone to share it with.

[BungusHighFivePizza]

i find just as many faults in men my age as with women

[BungusHighFivePizza]

maybe were just complaining about youth. if i were older and in ur area maybe we could live a life happily sharing our strengths with u and ur truck. we could build a happy life together. cuddle each other before we go to sleep and then meet new sunrise and a new day. we could make this life together. but im just a random asshole on the internet and ur just an older woman on the internet and well never meet to make this happen

[Anonymous]

Yeah, i believe that's the case.

I guess you tried online dating, but it is very superficial and it starts with people selecting an age range they want to date for men and women..
So try something else that's more personal. If you look good you should have no problem dating someone IRL.

Guys will always want to date young women, just like how girls want the perfect man.

[Fireguy17]

Yes, dating and finding the right person is a lot of work, almost like a job, and depending where you live, in the country or a city can make it more difficult.

[jhl_x]

No. Partners, relationships and happy endings aren't human rights.

[Jamie05rhs]

You already picked someone. You should have done better research and not jumped at the first opportunity to get married. That's on you.

[Alwayreckles93]

Oh right what about the stupid younger woman breaking marriages? I look way better then a stupid 18 year old. I'm not jelous just facts.

[Jamie05rhs]

It doesn't matter what age you are when you break your marriage. Someone doing it at 63 is just as guilty as someone doing it at 23.

[Alwayreckles93]

A 63 year old is mature and better woman ratehr then a stupid useless 23 year old. Not sure what planet you live in but all younger woman are all sluts. Back in the day 80's 90's woman knew to have self respect

[Jamie05rhs]

I didn't say anything about being a slut. I certainly don't think you're a slut at all.

[slatyb]

No, I don’t. Some people are too antisocial to sustain a loving partnership.

[KrakenAttackin]

How many guys have you snubbed these last year's? The wall is undefeated.

[ElvenMr]

Damn lol, at least try to help her as well hah.

[Alex8736]

Absolutely. I have noticed that the things you search the hardest for you find under your very nose

[TrillXHippy]

If there is really someone out there for everyone then nobody would be single

[Xtendable]

Your profile age is broken

i believe there is more than one person out there for you

[loveslongnails]

Change the men you're meeting.

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope, there are lots of people who never find love

[BLP11520]

No, some will never be happy

[Alwayreckles93]

Your so negative

[Gent207]

@alwayreckles93
You've seen it with your ex that man could find a sex Android like fully alive and capable of doing everything to make him happy. That man would still find a way to be miserable or something to complain about

[Therisinghero12]

Yeah, world is full enough of love for everyone

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yes I believe that. 😀

[Zolly99999]

Some of us never do...

[eagle1951]

yes i do. and i had her for 37 years

[Alwayreckles93]

That is wonderful , Now a days in my generation couples give up so easily.

[RuthlessAggression]

Yeah