Do you believe there’s someone for everyone?

[Anonymous]

Honestly, I don’t believe there is. Not everyone is meant to be with someone.

[magiusX26]

no. the rough, basic math tells us there actually is not. 1st take away the underaged from the total population because those are not an option for this, and due to aging occuring during the seeking someone process, some underaged get added back into the mix as they become no longer underaged. now eliminate those of a gender not suited to you. eliminate those of the appropriate gender but not of the same orientation as being your partner would require. now eliminate those of an asexual orientation who have no desire for partnering up period. now eliminate those unable to be partnered with due to circumstances such as religious obligations (think priests or nuns) or things like incarceration. now elimate the too old and/or infirm. now eliminate those nasty things like pedofiles. now eliminate due to distance that you both together can not overcome. now eliminate those due to physical, personality, racial, age, sexual (think kinks and drive), and other such personal prefferences. now eliminate the onrs left that have to eliminate you off something of the above (likely prefferences) . now eliminate those that would be suitable but already taken. decent chance that all that just left you with no one.

[caring__1]

I don't believe in fatalism... believing there is someone already selected for you. I do believe for every type of person, there are people who appreciate that type of person. The problem is connecting people together. This is complicated by people not being open and honest with each other, so you may be drawn to a come-on rather than a real trait of the person. If people were honest from the start (sharing exactly what they expect of a partner and what that partner can expect of them), it would be much easier to find compatible partners.

[Anonymous]

Yes and no
You don’t really have to or is a must to be with someone. Being in relationship with someone is a part of our life cycle but cycle is a circle right ⭕️ So life will flow even without it. Since it’s not so vital to live. You can live without it. after.
As for people who can’t live life without someone yes there is someone for everyone. But you have to act on it smart it’s like a game but not a bad game. You have to put yourself out there be ready to accept rejections also know that right timing is so real. When the opportunity comes and obviously if you like them take it. They won’t be there waiting for you.

[Poliker]

I sincerely think that there is someone for everyone. With 8 billion people on Earth, everyone has a match with someone. I feel like everyone has about 390 different perfect matches that are scattered throughout the world and likely don't speak the same language or have the same hobbies, so the difficult part is finding them.

For example, a random person in Ohio, there are probably nine different perfect partners for them in their state, but they have a different schedule, live somewhere out of bounds, or have just not met each other yet.

[kylee2437]

I do believe there is, however I think people put restrictions on themselves to find that person whether it’s because they want to be single and such. Different life experiences will bring out how you go about life and what you desire, but that doesn’t mean there isn’t someone out there for you.

[Tracker1958]

The longer people live alone, the harder it will be to live with someone. People get set in their ways and anyone will mess up their routine.

[kylee2437]

@tracker1958 well that’s my point. Most people that are single and believe that nobody is for them is because they are stuck in their own ways and don’t realize relationships take more compromise than you think

[Tracker1958]

I love it when people never find someone to grow old with. It will get to a point that no one on earth cares if they live or die.

[Asker]

@Tracker1958 Why does people being single bother you so much?

[Tracker1958]

It doesn't, just love it when a plan comes together.

[jennifer_bloom]

I believe there is more than one option for each person with pure intentions and good behaviour and people can choose out of more than one guy or girl (depending on their gender).

[Tracker1958]

Stay single and then both can F as many different people as they want.

[nakeddal4u2c]

Unfortunatelyat 72 I fear I'll never meet the love of my life even though

[Guy13]

Absolutely, there is one for each of us. There was one for Adam/Eve and why would we be any different ⁉️

[SteveSmith1985]

It's hard to say whether it's a "Belief" or a "Hope". But yes, I think so 🙂

[Summeroflove]

I think so. Long as someone’s a good perpen and wants someone. Unless God calls someone to singleness

[coachTanthony]

Not everyone is capable.

[Avicenna]

For the most part, yes

[MCheetah]

I'm living proof of it, so I know for a 100% fact that there is not "someone for everyone." No woman has been attracted to me in years because I don't meet their height, physique, or income requirements, and I'd rather not make my life even more miserable just to meet someone's fickle and shallow standards in order to be used and abused by them. Most people in general are shallow, but modern women are extremely shallow. I'm short, overweight, ugly, dark-skinned, and not rich. Literally just one of those things is enough to be a dealbreaker with women, and I'm the total package! The anti-Chad.

[Kaneki05]

There is 8B people in the world. There will be many that match your personality so I don't believe it, it's just a fact by statistics.

Otherwise you would be claiming that you out of 8B people is so unique that you don't fit with anyone.
Which is laughable because things aren't that unique especially in psychology there is a reason why you can profile killers or diagnose a person with depression or tell a person is more extrovert because there is always data of people acting the same way.

[Wade12345]

If you had asked me 15 or 20 years ago, I'd have said "Yes".

Fast-forward to today and I'm 42 years old and still a virgin, so I think the answer is "No."

For whatever reason, God just flat out doesn't intend some people to have marriage nor much of anything else either, and it's not necessarily even anything they might be doing wrong either. You could be a Saint and do everything correctly, and love the opposite gender with all your life, and never raise your voice in anger either, and yet God will still forbid you to date and marry for his own reasons. He might even forbid you to date and marry just to see whether you'll obey Him when you figure out you're forbidden to date and marry.

[FinalFantasyBro]

Usually most people both men and women tend to have high expectations regarding in their prefer gender of choice and while yes that idea guy or idea girl possibly exist but it is a small 1 percent chance of finding that idea partner. So instead most people with just lower their standards as settling or just don't care for having expectations. But in general sense yeah their is someone for everyone but it you have to sacrifice your standard to have anyone because the perfect man or perfect woman logically doesn't exist.

[QuadDamage]

Yes I do actually, but you must adapt yourself to what kind of life you want. And how things are where you live.

You must project something outward and it doesn't have to be much.

Try to be happy and not angry. Talk without assuming or judging. Show a bit of curiosity in the people you talk to, not that hard once you sincerely just talk to people.

[Asker]

I live in a shitty town. Not many people I like.

[QuadDamage]

Fair does Sasha, take care of yourself 👍

I feel the same where I live so I can deffo relate but it certainly has to do with me in this case, to the biggest level.

There's a big reason why I reside alone, some folks are just monsters you know 😂

And when I've stopped seeing myself as this, the projections outwards will change.

Thus people will come and be curious again. If that is what I want then so it shall be right?

[DollAlone]

Maybe not everyone is meant to be for someone but if they are good people and good to others and take care of themselves then there is no reason WHY they can't find someone with equal interests to share something with. There is over 6 billion people on Earth, so i believe that everyone can find 3 or 4 people they are "meant to be" with. And everyone deserves someone too!

[Asker]

I used to believe that but I’m 30 now and never found anyone. I’ll admit I am toxic and have major red flags.

[dustybiker]

Yes, there is. There have been a handful of people I clicked with from the get go. As if I knew them my whole life. Not just one. Might not always be in the right headspace to be with them at meeting, but there are lots of good matches out there.

[Qdbrown]

Not by a long-shot. All through history, only 60-70% of people meet and mate. Men who don't make the grade stay single,. sexless and childless forever. This is more common, especially now people have social media and dating apps.

Most women would be shocked that they date, mate and have sex with the same smaller group of guys who have options. Some women will compromise. No woman in history settles. Not unless there is a lot of money involved.

[DaySpring]

Being wanted is governed by 3 things
1. The need for what you offer
2. The quality of what you offer
3. The difficulty there is in replacing you

[Mikeysoda]

Yes and no. I am assuming you mean romantically and not just a friendship. I do believe there are people out there who do not desire romantic relationships. So for them, id say no, there is not someone for them. But yes for those who desire that type of relationship with another human, absolutely someone is out there.

[MystiKaL]

Yes and No. Yes, because if you were to search the entire World's population, you're bound to find that special one. But then No, because the chances are most of us will be limited on who we see, what we do, and who we connect with, so if you're not entirely fortunate in life (like me) it's a lost cause.

[RavVid]

You'd think it should be easy. Generally speaking guys like girls and girls like guys and there are about equal numbers of each and mostly we couple. Very few harems.

So there should be someone for everyone.

But it doesn't work out like that even if you are not particularly picky. Seems to me we are highly selective with whom we wish to couple with and not all that determined to stay coupled.

So yeah I agree I don't think there is someone for everyone.

[blissinanarchy1]

So me personally, I’m hoping there is but I’m losing hope in the local female population. Most got Onlyfans.

My three, bare minimal, non-negotiable standards, are no onlyfans, anybody you fucked in the past got to go, and you got to have goals.

And around here, those are some high ass standards.