Do you believe there’s someone for everyone?

Question

Honestly, I don’t believe there is. Not everyone is meant to be with someone.

magiusX26 · Accepted Answer

no. the rough, basic math tells us there actually is not. 1st take away the underaged from the total population because those are not an option for this, and due to aging occuring during the seeking someone process, some underaged get added back into the mix as they become no longer underaged. now eliminate those of a gender not suited to you. eliminate those of the appropriate gender but not of the same orientation as being your partner would require. now eliminate those of an asexual orientation who have no desire for partnering up period. now eliminate those unable to be partnered with due to circumstances such as religious obligations (think priests or nuns) or things like incarceration. now elimate the too old and/or infirm. now eliminate those nasty things like pedofiles. now eliminate due to distance that you both together can not overcome. now eliminate those due to physical, personality, racial, age, sexual (think kinks and drive), and other such personal prefferences. now eliminate the onrs left that have to eliminate you off something of the above (likely prefferences) . now eliminate those that would be suitable but already taken. decent chance that all that just left you with no one.

caring__1 · Accepted Answer

I don't believe in fatalism... believing there is someone already selected for you. I do believe for every type of person, there are people who appreciate that type of person. The problem is connecting people together. This is complicated by people not being open and honest with each other, so you may be drawn to a come-on rather than a real trait of the person. If people were honest from the start (sharing exactly what they expect of a partner and what that partner can expect of them), it would be much easier to find compatible partners.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yes and no
You don’t really have to or is a must to be with someone. Being in relationship with someone is a part of our life cycle but cycle is a circle right ⭕️ So life will flow even without it. Since it’s not so vital to live. You can live without it. after.
As for people who can’t live life without someone yes there is someone for everyone. But you have to act on it smart it’s like a game but not a bad game. You have to put yourself out there be ready to accept rejections also know that right timing is so real. When the opportunity comes and obviously if you like them take it. They won’t be there waiting for you.

Poliker · Accepted Answer

I sincerely think that there is someone for everyone. With 8 billion people on Earth, everyone has a match with someone. I feel like everyone has about 390 different perfect matches that are scattered throughout the world and likely don't speak the same language or have the same hobbies, so the difficult part is finding them.

For example, a random person in Ohio, there are probably nine different perfect partners for them in their state, but they have a different schedule, live somewhere out of bounds, or have just not met each other yet.

kylee2437 · Answer

I do believe there is, however I think people put restrictions on themselves to find that person whether it’s because they want to be single and such. Different life experiences will bring out how you go about life and what you desire, but that doesn’t mean there isn’t someone out there for you.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I believe there is more than one option for each person with pure intentions and good behaviour and people can choose out of more than one guy or girl (depending on their gender).

Guy13 · Answer

Absolutely, there is one for each of us. There was one for Adam/Eve and why would we be any different ⁉️

SteveSmith1985 · Answer

It's hard to say whether it's a "Belief" or a "Hope". But yes, I think so 🙂

Summeroflove · Answer

I think so. Long as someone’s a good perpen and wants someone. Unless God calls someone to singleness

coachTanthony · Answer

Not everyone is capable.

Avicenna · Answer

For the most part, yes

MCheetah · Answer

I'm living proof of it, so I know for a 100% fact that there is not "someone for everyone." No woman has been attracted to me in years because I don't meet their height, physique, or income requirements, and I'd rather not make my life even more miserable just to meet someone's fickle and shallow standards in order to be used and abused by them. Most people in general are shallow, but modern women are  extremely  shallow. I'm short, overweight, ugly, dark-skinned, and not rich. Literally just one of those things is enough to be a dealbreaker with women, and I'm the total package! The anti-Chad.

Kaneki05 · Answer

There is 8B people in the world. There will be many that match your personality so I don't believe it, it's just a fact by statistics.

Otherwise you would be claiming that you out of 8B people is so unique that you don't fit with anyone.
Which is laughable because things aren't that unique especially in psychology there is a reason why you can profile killers or diagnose a person with depression or tell a person is more extrovert because there is always data of people acting the same way.

Wade12345 · Answer

If you had asked me 15 or 20 years ago, I'd have said "Yes".

Fast-forward to today and I'm 42 years old and still a virgin, so I think the answer is "No."

For whatever reason, God just flat out doesn't intend some people to have marriage nor much of anything else either, and it's not necessarily even anything they might be doing wrong either. You could be a Saint and do everything correctly, and love the opposite gender with all your life, and never raise your voice in anger either, and yet God will still forbid you to date and marry for his own reasons. He might even forbid you to date and marry just to see whether you'll obey Him when you figure out you're forbidden to date and marry.

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

Usually most people both men and women tend to have high expectations regarding in their prefer gender of choice and while yes that idea guy or idea girl possibly exist but it is a small 1 percent chance of finding that idea partner. So instead most people with just lower their standards as settling or just don't care for having expectations. But in general sense yeah their is someone for everyone but it you have to sacrifice your standard to have anyone because the perfect man or perfect woman logically doesn't exist.

QuadDamage · Answer

Yes I do actually, but you must adapt yourself to what kind of life you want. And how things are where you live.

You must project something outward and it doesn't have to be much.

Try to be happy and not angry. Talk without assuming or judging. Show a bit of curiosity in the people you talk to, not that hard once you sincerely just talk to people.

DollAlone · Answer

Maybe not everyone is meant to be for someone but if they are good people and good to others and take care of themselves then there is no reason WHY they can't find someone with equal interests to share something with. There is over 6 billion people on Earth, so i believe that everyone can find 3 or 4 people they are "meant to be" with. And everyone deserves someone too!

dustybiker · Answer

Yes, there is. There have been a handful of people I clicked with from the get go. As if I knew them my whole life. Not just one. Might not always be in the right headspace to be with them at meeting, but there are lots of good matches out there.

Qdbrown · Answer

Not by a long-shot. All through history, only 60-70% of people meet and mate. Men who don't make the grade stay single,. sexless and childless forever. This is more common, especially now people have social media and dating apps.

Most women would be shocked that they date, mate and have sex with the same smaller group of guys who have options. Some women will compromise. No woman in history settles. Not unless there is a lot of money involved.

DaySpring · Answer

Being  wanted  is governed by 3 things 1. The need for what  you  offer 2. The quality of what you offer 3. The difficulty there is in replacing you

Mikeysoda · Answer

Yes and no. I am assuming you mean romantically and not just a friendship. I do believe there are people out there who do not desire romantic relationships. So for them, id say no, there is not someone for them. But yes for those who desire that type of relationship with another human, absolutely someone is out there.

MystiKaL · Answer

Yes and No. Yes, because if you were to search the entire World's population, you're bound to find that special one. But then No, because the chances are most of us will be limited on who we see, what we do, and who we connect with, so if you're not entirely fortunate in life (like me) it's a lost cause.

RavVid · Answer

You'd think it should be easy. Generally speaking guys like girls and girls like guys and there are about equal numbers of each and mostly we couple. Very few harems.

So there should be someone for everyone.

But it doesn't work out like that even if you are not particularly picky. Seems to me we are highly selective with whom we wish to couple with and not all that determined to stay coupled.

So yeah I agree I don't think there is someone for everyone.

blissinanarchy1 · Answer

So me personally, I’m hoping there is but I’m losing hope in the local female population. Most got Onlyfans.

My three, bare minimal, non-negotiable standards, are no onlyfans, anybody you fucked in the past got to go, and you got to have goals.

And around here, those are some high ass standards.

Anonymous · Answer

There is not just one person for everyone and if you miss them you're screwed. There are plenty of good people you could spend your life with, but if you continue to think about it with such pessimism it will drive people away from wanting to be in a relationship with you. Being "alone" is not a bad thing.

Kiran_Yagami · Answer

No. Our society (as in the west) only ever gets lonelier, with more and more women chasing after only the cream of the crop of men, which is situation that leads to disappointment for most men and most women. Marriage rates are plummeting, divorce rates are rising, and child birth rates are also plummeting. The only person you can count on in this world is you.

Paul09 · Answer

Not in My experience. I've been single most of my life now. Incredibly hard to even find women to date. People have too many options and don't give chances anymore. I wish there was someone for me. But I've learned to not let it bother me anymore. I distract myself. Lucky people meet the "one". If that's even real. Many break ups and divorces happening.

VIVANT · Answer

I don’t think anyone is meant to be with anyone. I think you try to make it with or you don’t and it works or it doesn’t. At some point tho we’re alone, can’t escape that so best to get cozy with yourself and be ok in your own company.

letuswaltzforthedead · Answer

not really, most of the time it's even for the most random of reasons but still, some people die alone. I think love is something you have to make, it's hard to fall in love and it's hard to maintain it.

Lionman95 · Answer

No because there have always been people that were in a relationship and there have always been people that didn´t get into one. I think a statement that there is a person for everyone is rather a modern phenomen but nothing that´s true.

Berethor · Answer

Considering how female hypergamy works, I don't think so, it's a naive worldwide.

ShadezMcgee · Answer

I will say there are people out there we will be compatible with when meeting and it can grow into more. It just comes down to whether they meet these people or not.

Red-Blaze · Answer

I belive there are, but not like its a kight with shining armor, some you may need to work on your self to be fit for And some may not look like the best if not given a chance

Looksnicholas · Answer

Hmm, that's a hard one 👀 because take away all the myth or even take away all the science, the relationship experts self claimed or actual, hmm.  Guess my answer is: unsure.

Paulalove98 · Answer

I didn’t think anyone was out there for me but less than a month after my 24th birthday I met a wonderful guy who’s now my boyfriend.

all_hayl · Answer

🙄 you kind of answered your own question (albeit by giving your OPINION- but you still answered your own question).

Adaeva · Answer

Of course not. Those in the bottom of barrel are unacceptable to everyone including others in the bottom of the barrel.

lightbulb27 · Answer

Yes, belief. doesn't guarantee achievement.  If you don't like your results, make changes...

Adam1978 · Answer

No there's people out there that is undateable. I wouldn't qualify myself as one and I don't think most belong in the that category.

Lovelydove13 · Answer

nope.. there s no such thing like we are destined to be with someone. we make our own choices and our destiny is something which we create on our own

Minxxie · Answer

I believe there are many compatible people in the world with whom you can work to build a strong relationship.

A_Bell · Answer

I don't know, but probably. There are 4 billion of each sex. But I do know that I absolurely love that dress.

CloudMassacre · Answer

Seeing the weird couples in Walmart has convinced me that in a workd of 8 billion people farting around, there IS someone for everyone

SlothySlob · Answer

I do believe that. But there is a real chance that the person who was meant for you has fallen and is in love with someone else.

tfan1 · Answer

I do indeed. I never thought I would ever have a girlfriend but now I’m happily married to a wonderful beautiful Chinese girl and we have a 10 year old son. 😃👍

PainusNdeeAnus · Answer

Shauna Rae is proof there is someone for everyone *even pedophiles*

AngelLily · Answer

I Think there is for some an not for others. Some people deserve to be alone. While others are just chilling by themselves.

DoctorSex · Answer

Statistically no, unless you're willing to share a man.  Kind regards, DoctorSex

dreamstar72 · Answer

Most of us believes in certain songs. So since there are a few “Everyone has a Someone” songs out then there is a someone for everyone.

Anonymous · Answer

There are many available for everyone out there. It is up to the individual to find the skills needed to find a partner in life. Once you find those skills, the rest is easy.

Aimée__LJ · Answer

I think there is someone for everyone who deserves it. Some people really just shouldn't be in relationships let alone procreating.

Tina19 · Answer

No i don't believe in it at all for some people it just never happens and for some they don't want it to happen as they love their freedom

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

No, especially if someone prefers solitude.

kitty71 · Answer

No beacuse otherwise I would had been attached already

AmeerX · Answer

I like to think. I believe there is. But divorce is real and so is break up. And people can love multiple people just not sexually but platonically too.

slatyb · Answer

No, some people are incapable of being a loving partner.

UniquelyBasic · Answer

I believe their is someone for everyone but I dont think everyone will meet that person.

RainBat · Answer

Nothing is meant to be, but yeah no matter who a person is it's very likely there's someone at least partly compatible.

GoodGuyBreakingBad · Answer

It's hard to say, but I believe there is

Valso · Answer

No. That's just wishful thinking. The sooner one accepts that fact, the better. I accepted it 15 years ago.

BJP21 · Answer

Isn't the current planet population census ratio of planet earth 2.5 girls for 1 guy?

AdithyaR · Answer

I don't believe it either. I'm living proof of it. No one's gonna be interested in me.

annabananna · Answer

Yea, just not sure if everyone will find that person even though that person is out there.

AsaKyo · Answer

I feel like it might be to some degree, but at the same time, I have my doubts

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