There is not just one person for everyone and if you miss them you're screwed. There are plenty of good people you could spend your life with, but if you continue to think about it with such pessimism it will drive people away from wanting to be in a relationship with you. Being "alone" is not a bad thing.
No. Our society (as in the west) only ever gets lonelier, with more and more women chasing after only the cream of the crop of men, which is situation that leads to disappointment for most men and most women. Marriage rates are plummeting, divorce rates are rising, and child birth rates are also plummeting. The only person you can count on in this world is you.
Not in My experience. I've been single most of my life now. Incredibly hard to even find women to date. People have too many options and don't give chances anymore. I wish there was someone for me. But I've learned to not let it bother me anymore. I distract myself. Lucky people meet the "one". If that's even real. Many break ups and divorces happening.
I don’t think anyone is meant to be with anyone. I think you try to make it with or you don’t and it works or it doesn’t. At some point tho we’re alone, can’t escape that so best to get cozy with yourself and be ok in your own company.
not really, most of the time it's even for the most random of reasons but still, some people die alone. I think love is something you have to make, it's hard to fall in love and it's hard to maintain it.
No because there have always been people that were in a relationship and there have always been people that didn´t get into one. I think a statement that there is a person for everyone is rather a modern phenomen but nothing that´s true.
Men are already unhappy with women existing because we’re horrible. You said it yourself. So, either you want us here or want us gone. There’s no between.
I will say there are people out there we will be compatible with when meeting and it can grow into more. It just comes down to whether they meet these people or not.
I belive there are, but not like its a kight with shining armor, some you may need to work on your self to be fit for And some may not look like the best if not given a chance
@DaySpring I literally didn’t. This is coming from an outcast girl in high school who was never the one who got the guy or was the pretty pick. I met my boyfriend when I least expected it. I believe in due time someone is out there for each Individual you just have to keep your head up and not lose hope.
I met my boyfriend on tinder too believe it or not. I know it sounds crazy and online dating can get some backlash but we clicked from the start and he’s very different then guys who’ve only wanted sex.
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There is not just one person for everyone and if you miss them you're screwed. There are plenty of good people you could spend your life with, but if you continue to think about it with such pessimism it will drive people away from wanting to be in a relationship with you. Being "alone" is not a bad thing.
No. Our society (as in the west) only ever gets lonelier, with more and more women chasing after only the cream of the crop of men, which is situation that leads to disappointment for most men and most women. Marriage rates are plummeting, divorce rates are rising, and child birth rates are also plummeting. The only person you can count on in this world is you.
Not in My experience. I've been single most of my life now. Incredibly hard to even find women to date. People have too many options and don't give chances anymore. I wish there was someone for me. But I've learned to not let it bother me anymore. I distract myself. Lucky people meet the "one". If that's even real. Many break ups and divorces happening.
I don’t think anyone is meant to be with anyone. I think you try to make it with or you don’t and it works or it doesn’t. At some point tho we’re alone, can’t escape that so best to get cozy with yourself and be ok in your own company.
not really, most of the time it's even for the most random of reasons but still, some people die alone. I think love is something you have to make, it's hard to fall in love and it's hard to maintain it.
No because there have always been people that were in a relationship and there have always been people that didn´t get into one. I think a statement that there is a person for everyone is rather a modern phenomen but nothing that´s true.
Considering how female hypergamy works, I don't think so, it's a naive worldwide.
Are women really that bad?
Yea, that's why many people are single.
Would it be better if we just stopped existing?
Sounds extreme, if women stop existing then even more men are going to be single.
So? What’s wrong with that?
You want more people to be unhappy? does it make you feel better?
Men are already unhappy with women existing because we’re horrible. You said it yourself. So, either you want us here or want us gone. There’s no between.
Horrible enough to not exist? I think that you are taking it little too far girl. :)
And?
You don’t really need us around.
I will say there are people out there we will be compatible with when meeting and it can grow into more. It just comes down to whether they meet these people or not.
I belive there are, but not like its a kight with shining armor, some you may need to work on your self to be fit for
And some may not look like the best if not given a chance
Hmm, that's a hard one 👀 because take away all the myth or even take away all the science, the relationship experts self claimed or actual, hmm.
Guess my answer is: unsure.
I didn’t think anyone was out there for me but less than a month after my 24th birthday I met a wonderful guy who’s now my boyfriend.
Some girls say that. Some girls never get to say that.
@DaySpring I literally didn’t. This is coming from an outcast girl in high school who was never the one who got the guy or was the pretty pick. I met my boyfriend when I least expected it. I believe in due time someone is out there for each Individual you just have to keep your head up and not lose hope.
@Paulalove98 Honestly, I lost hope.
I met my boyfriend on tinder too believe it or not. I know it sounds crazy and online dating can get some backlash but we clicked from the start and he’s very different then guys who’ve only wanted sex.
@BlackElph and @paulalove98 You two should be friends.
🙄 you kind of answered your own question (albeit by giving your OPINION- but you still answered your own question).
I wanted to know what everyone else thought.
Of course not. Those in the bottom of barrel are unacceptable to everyone including others in the bottom of the barrel.
Yes, belief. doesn't guarantee achievement.
If you don't like your results, make changes...
No there's people out there that is undateable. I wouldn't qualify myself as one and I don't think most belong in the that category.
nope.. there s no such thing like we are destined to be with someone. we make our own choices and our destiny is something which we create on our own
I believe there are many compatible people in the world with whom you can work to build a strong relationship.
I don't know, but probably. There are 4 billion of each sex.
But I do know that I absolurely love that dress.
Seeing the weird couples in Walmart has convinced me that in a workd of 8 billion people farting around, there IS someone for everyone
I lol’d at this 🤣
I do believe that. But there is a real chance that the person who was meant for you has fallen and is in love with someone else.