Do you believe there is someone for everyone?

[coachTanthony]

yes

No

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I'll go with "yes" but in a different type of use of "believe". It's an idealized "believe".

There's analytical "believe" in the sense that we think something is more likely to be true than the alternative. I wouldn't say "yes" if I engaged that mode of thinking; unfortunately there might be some people might be thoroughly incompatible with everyone else that way or at least some people who will never discover that compatible person.

Then there's pragmatic "believe" like thinking that way best improves our chances of seeing it come true. That's the type of "believe" I went with when I said "yes". It may not come true for some people, but at least it's not a self-fulfilling prophecy that near-guarantees failure as in the case of someone who believes that there's nobody out there for them (causing them to cease searching, self-improving, and losing whatever chance they had).

[sukumamu]

For everyone, no. For most people, maybe.

For those who want a relationship and are actively looking, anyone with adequate common sense, passable social skills, decent hygiene, functioning levels of commitment, realistic standards, and an even slightly positive outlook can manage to find someone that will at least tolerate them romantically. But some people, for one reason or another, and possibly through no fault of their own, can't manage these traits. Those people may have a very uphill battle ahead of them trying to find a long-term partner. Not impossible, but far from guaranteed. Lonely people die alone all the time.

[Breanna_nonbinary]

Yes of course. But the real question is whether or not you two are compatible. Relationships aren’t easy and just because people are made for each other doesn’t mean they were mean to be together. I once met a wonderful gorgeous woman. I loved her with all my heart. However, we didn’t end up together because there were aspects of my life that she wasn’t willing to accept. She loved me and would have married me if I’d asked but in the end I could be the person that she wanted or needed to be happy. I couldn’t be happy hiding or denying that part of my life.

[jennifer_bloom]

I know people in happy relationships and people in unhappy relationships. The ones in happy relationships had to work very hard and struggle very much and fight very hard in life, to achieve everything they have and every prospect they kept and had a good connection with. I also had dreams telling me the quality of my romantic relationships was influenced by the degree of sacrifice I put into building my life.

[Artificial Intelligence]

Diving into the heart of love here! The idea that there's someone for everyone is as sweet as a Hollywood rom-com. Imagine love as a wild, unpredictable adventure rather than a one-size-fits-all soulmate hunt. Sure, not everyone meets their match in the same chapter of their life, but that's what makes the journey tantalizing! The beauty? Diversity in connection. Some find love that's as fiery as a summer blockbuster, while others enjoy a love story that unfolds like a slow-burn indie film. So, keep your heart open and your love script flexible. Who knows? Your co-star might just be waiting for their cue to enter stage right. 😉

[AviatorTom]

Generically Yes, but Statistically No. There are more women than men in the world, so some women are going to be left out.

[NathanDavis]

nope...

there's a lot of people, especially in here... that refuse to do what it really takes

we're not entitled to anything at all...

earn it, be worth of it... or keep quiet

[msc545]

Sure, let's shame all the men who cannot manage to grow to at least 6', or who can't makes their penis grow to at least 6" or who aren't educated or smart enough to make 6 figures.

[NathanDavis]

@msc545 it's a shame that they're so stupid and immature, yes

ignorant as well

truly a shame... but kudos to all of the shorter guys that do not sabotage themselves and are currently living their best lives

[msc545]

Shaming other men does not make you any bigger or better. It makes you a simp.

[NathanDavis]

@msc545 so... you're calling yourself an incel...

got it, Incel

[msc545]

You really have problems with logic, Don't you. Nothing I said involved being an incel or even mentioned the word. I just called you a simp which is exactly what you are.

[NathanDavis]

@msc545 if you are going to call me juvenile names... because you think it applies

then that's the one you get... you loathe and despise women as much as an incel does exactly the way incels do

difference is that you fool yourself to think you voluntarily stay away from them... but we both know truth is, nobody would ever stand to be with you

by the way... speaking of the "simp definition" don't forget you're also going around the site following a certain girl like a puppy in love would... isn't that a simp too?

[Daniela1982]

@msc545 Come on, MCheetah is not here anymore to complain about him not being 6 ft.

[IslaTheWitch]

no... for everything that is important we have to work hard to get it and even harder to keep it... none of those just is...

[TommyMountainFigure]

In a world of over 7 Billion people, I would have to say absolutely. Whether or not the person is actively looking in the right places however? That's a whole different question!

[Daniela1982]

No, and I am living proof. More like their "could be", but nothing is guaranteed in life. We are victims of our own choices. And imagine how many bad ones we make that may have thrown away good ones we should have made. 😟

[electromagnetic]

No. I think some people deserve to be alone.

[SolitarySolace]

No. Because there are people out there who don’t want someone in their life. There are those who this supposed one who is meant to be with someone specific is dead or has gotten with someone else. 🤷🏻‍♂️ if we’re talking non-platonic

[Bricealan]

Probably a LOT of someone's for everyone...

[sage2021]

My Mom used to tell me that when I was growing up. ""There's someone for everyone " and I believed her. She was married 5 times 🙄

[BCRanger10]

Kind of... but that's something that the guy and girl have to work and, yes, compete for with each other.

[Unit1]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WpVasD4V3RM

I don't know about the others but for me yes.

[exitseven]

No, there is someone for most people but there are a few unfortunate ones that there is just no match for. It sucks but it is true.

[Twalli]

Only one person though. The likliehood that you will find that one person in over 8 billion is low. Also it's possible that the one person for you may not be the one person for you, and the other person they're with is the one person for then.

[NewgodOmega]

Nope not at all
Monks live entire live alone
There is no one for them
So automatically you know the truth

[normalice]

No. The best matches are when each person is sybiotically open handed with whatever psychological needs the other has. But its quite possible for someone to have psychological needs that are beyond what anyone can provide.

[Haraklus]

I don't actually think that there is someone "for" anyone. There is no such thing as a perfect match. Anybody's perfect match would be a perfect person... and a perfect person doesn't exist.

[Ms_Facesitter]

More than one even. I've met individuals who mirror me as far as personality goes.

[Drew-1990]

Yes I do, do I believe there is one specific person like a soul mate, no, but is there someone or someone's that would be good for you, yes. I believe everybody can find someone.

[Lionheart69]

Love is The Triumph of optimism over experience I am now in a new relationship After being solo for many years I thought she loved me as I loved her, so I bought a house for us to live together. I am now thinking it was a great mistake. She can be so cold, and we rarely have sex. She looks after me very well washes and irons my clothes. Keeps the house and garden immaculate. just that the affection is missing.

[MissBoogus]

Yes, I think everyone has a person. But does everyone find that person? No sadly