Do you believe that there really is someone for everyone?

[beebella]

I believe that's true

I don't believe that

Some people don't deserve to be loved

Something else

[btbc92]

No. Unless God called you to marriage, not everybody is called so therefore not everybody will have. Some don't want to. And that is okay. But there is no such thing as a soulmate made just for you. That was for Adam and Eve for a reason. But with marriage, you have to find and pick and choose. You can ask God to help you pick a suitable partner. It's best to ask should you be dating and married or not. What people are doing is giving others a false perception of life and romance. If it's true somebody is for everyone, then why so many people dying single, alone, and never married or been with a person? Wouldn't the whole universe be thrown off for every person that isn't paired up? Then how come nobody wants "Ugly and deformed" people? People need to stop the hypocrisy.

[yolo18]

I don't believe there's 1 soulmate out there for you. I think there are multiples, like 2 or 3, living far away from you, maybe somewhere around the world, and depending how you live your life, you'll find at least 1 of them. Once you found the first one, you'll never leave each other until death do you apart. You grow older together and one of you passes. After that, if you're lucky, you can find that second special person who will love you just as much, and will cure your wounds and will be your companion for the beginning of your "rest of your life". And you'll not feel guilty because you know your s/o who passed will be happy to see you stop being depressed and looking out for yourself, your gran children, and got back being happy. 🤍

[Jjpayne]

I think they are out there but during co vid it's much harder to find them. But overall, it's being in the right place to find them. You note what your interests are and then look for them there. Like drawing, take an art class, or movies join a movie club, or board games, book reading, anime.. The list could keep going but once co vid clears or gets better then you can start to plug yourself into a group or club that's close to you to find similar people that just might also be single too... That will be my next attempt after dating sites have nearly been a complete fail 🙄

[Jjpayne]

Meetup. com as long as they still exist is what I will be using

[Sonorous]

Yes, but not in the destiny/fate/predetermined kind of way. There's just an abundance of our species so it's really not hard to find someone. Probability is on our side.

[jennifer_bloom]

Not everybody was designed for marriage but if your mature enough for it and your heart is right and you want to get married, I believe God can give you a high quality partner, regardless of your age or background.

[Petra150]

I'd love to say that ofcauce there is one for all. But hell NO , living in the real world , knowib how ekstremly shallow my gender is, knowing 80% of all woman would prefer a guy who's at least 6' tall, and 50% have a height requirement 6' tall or no go. When we know only 15-20% of all males in northern Europe are 6'+ tall, and much lesser in the rest of the western world in general. So a quick mathematical surgery , make it obvious , us shallow and super picky women, will rather stay single than trying to look after guys with a great personality or men shorter who might could be at least just ad good partner. Now that fact will for sure result in the sad and horribel fact, that 25-30 % of all men will stay single due to my genders horrib shallowness. Those guy under 6 feet tall only chance to get a partner is to become welthy and rich. Because even the most shallow of my fellow sisters , still act like a hooker and would settle for a guy shorter than 6 feet IF and ONLY if he's RICH... never mind he haven't a great personality, telling we love personality is asefull on social media and other media's, but IRL we women don't give a shit about a good personality but only phycical features and height is a must to drive with a shallow woman

[TerraLina]

I dont really believe in soulmates.
But i do believe that there is that there is someone out there for everyone but it’s necessarily romantics but someone that will have such a positive impact in your life. Their presence was put into your path for something. That is why sometimes people who say they met their soulmate but he/she left or died or whatever, you met them at a moment in your life where you needed it to realize something about you.


I’m not sure if I’m really explaining it well but it’s similar to what i believe it is. I just have a difficult time putting it into words.

[ohshee]

How do you no he's not the bus driver lol I believe yes there is and there's even more than one when we meet people we talk laugh have fun and before we know it we are dating them. Now I know for me I will eith tell my self no not the one for me it won't work. ,, or I will say she's a lot of fun and nice and this and that,,, but long run it work. And with both of the. Next thing you your living together and you know it's never going to work with in the first 5 to ten min I know if it would work but I never listen to myself

[Purple_Rose]

I don't believe so. I know a lot of elderly women who either never married, or their husband left them and started another family.

Even though I'm only 25, I have started to come to accept the fact that I'll probably end up like one of those women one day. The fact that I've made it to my age with little to no sexual experience, never had an actual boyfriend, haven't gotten married or had at least one child yet, is considered bad where I'm from.

At my age, I should be very experienced with sex and should've had numerous relationships by now. Men are very turned off by just those facts alone. I can't please a man if I'm not experienced. He can easily find someone who can elsewhere. I can't find my special someone, if I have nothing to offer.

Sure, I'm responsible, I take good care of things, I love to cook, I treat everyone with respect, but that's it. Men don't give a crap about that. It's false hope to believe that there's someone for everyone.

[Zanaeel]

I see your point, but I believe that not every men is that way. I value the things that a woman achieves, how intelligent they are, and how their character is. According to that, and as there are many other people out there, I'm sure that there are people that value different things that those men you mention. Shouldn't be all, so don't give a damn about those who value such kind of things alone. Good luck, my friend

[Browneye57]

Well, in reality, there many suitors for a quality partner. There is no 'one', no 'soulmate', those are simply platitudes for the weak-minded.
But you have to DATE. A LOT. Just don't have sex with them all. This will give you sufficient experience to actually be able to DISCERN, to be able to judge whether they're worthy or not, are a match or not. Most simply will not. But you have to DATE to find out.
My advice - DON'T SQUANDER YOUR YOUTH. By thirty you'll have to compete with much younger women in the dating pool. By forty it's is nearly impossible to find a satisfactory mate, for a LOT of reasons. So get busy!

[Shazzab]

Yes 100%. I think people are becoming too picky these days. Relationships are about compromise and growth. Its unrealistic you're going to find your ideal match sitting and waiting for you but you can help mold each other into better versions which may end up suiting you more

[David92506]

It's the same thing about soul-mates. There is one person just for you. What if that person is already happily married? What if that person died?

So I don't believe in that or soul-mates.
I believe there are a lot of people out there one can be happy with.

[Puppystarfish23]

I believe their is someone out there for everyone. Even the most intolerable people can find love. That doesn't mean everyone finds that person when they want or ever will. I'm very good at match making and sometimes I just meet someone it can even be someone I dislike and can see who'd they'd be prefect for.

[TadCurious]

Isabel I don't think that's literally true. But what I do believe is that if a person is open to possibilites and doesn't screen people out based on superficial characteristics or ideas like "leagues," then the chances are really good they can find someone who is compatible to love and be with.

[WindAtMyBack]

I don't like the word "everyone", but I think it's real close to everyone. It's really a matter of finding them. It's heavily dependent on the number of people you meet. Double or quadruple the number of people you meet, and you double or quadruple the odds of finding someone, and how soon you find them.

[Poppykate]

Yes! Our world population is currently sitting at approximately 7.8 Billion, and with the use of the internet and the fact that you are apart of the largest generation since the Baby boomers (and that generation is slightly skewed towards males in terms of population) ... I think you will find someone if you try to meet people.

[slatyb]

Emotionally healthy people can form happy partnerships with many others, while some people are too angry or self-destructive to live happily with anyone. I am happily married and love my wife, but I'm sure that if I had not met her I would be happy with another woman.

[rjroy3]

I do. But I don't believe that everyone necessarily deserves that person in the moment. I look at it like this sports analogy.

Everyone "can" win. But will they? Maybe. If they do what it takes to win. Everyone can get someone if they do what it takes. But not everyone does what it takes and because of that they get no one.

Doesn't mean they can't or that no one is out there for them. Just means they have to change.

[Somoneelse]

I think there is. But I do feel like some people don't deserve to be loved or be in a relationship. These people are cheaters, abusive, manipulative, criminals or bad in other ways. I think everyone has their significant other. But no idea how long it takes before the two find each other.

[JSmuve]

No. For some people, there's multiple people. For others, there's no one. It depends on the person's standards and how outgoing they are. The higher the standards, the fewer the people. The less outgoing one is, the less likely one is to meet that person.

[JEndigoBleue]

No, you will have some people don't want to be in a relationship. You will have some people who do and will one day. And, you will have some people who do and will never meet someone to be with. It's just the way life goes.

I guess it's about meeting someone at the right place and time in their life and yours that you are not emotionally scared. You're healed. Available. You both want the same out life and ready to live that life to the fullest together.

[JEndigoBleue]

*emotionally scarred*

[Jamie05rhs]

Probably.
I don't know if there's someone for me specifically, but I hope so. I know there are women who fit each of my quirky qualities. The problem is that I'm not sure if there is a woman who fits all of them at the same time. ... But I'm holding out hope...

[Paolaa988]

For sure. You just have to find that person that matches your traits and energy. For some people it happens soon, some it takes time and im one of them but we're worthy of love if we have been a good person and desire that love to give and receive.

[proNutro]

I want to say I believe there is but I also know that many people go their whole life just never meeting a person for them, for whatever reason. Many people end up alone because they’ve just not found what they need or want I guess.