I belive the word "deserve" and all it's synonymes should be struck from all dictionnaires.
No one deserves anything or anyone, it's our actions who decide the path we take the people we let into our lives. Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't bur it's not written in the stars in both cases
I think everyone is a possible partner but today’s 40 and unders weren’t raised right. Lazy fools focused on a good time over being competent. For men you need to focus on being capable over happy. Otherwise women won’t want you. As a woman you gotta focus on being hot and feminine. But men were raised without fathers to teach this to them and women were raised to believe men were aggressive rapists that want one thing.
Yes and no. I don't think everyone has one perfect match out there. I think you have the potential to be compatible with a lot of people, and it comes down to luck amd hard work if you find someone that you remain compatible with as you both grow and change through the years. The romantic in me believes just a little in soul mates, but I have yet to see a real life couple where I thought that they were perfectly meant for each other
Not necessarily. For most folk yes. But there's a few folk out there that are simply intolerable pricks who will never be happy with other people in their life.
Full disclosure, I'm single af. Never been in love. I think we're all just people and some people you can live and work with and some you can't. As far as there being someone out there waiting for me, I don't believe it.
There isn't just "someone" out there for everyone. There is multple out there for everyone. You're not just compatible with 1 person. Dating is a number's game. It depends on many factors such as looks and game that determines your success in dating.
I don't believe that there's someone specifically for me but I do believe that if I try to be a good person and a good potential partner that I will find someone that more or less fits me :)
I will try and give a run down on life, no one person can really make all the right things happen, not in order but 1/ we all want some one we can depend on 2/ we all want a super human sexually 3/ we all want that great looking person, (we could have the one we want but they don't measure up to others) 4/ we all want the one that keeps every one happy but want them for ourselves 5/ we all want to be loved in a certain way, but and its a big but
Yes I believe there’s somebody for everybody. They might not live near you or even speak your language and you might never meet them but yea somewhere in the world is the PERFECT match for everyone
There's no true Lady Unicorn or Prince Charming. Yr romantic match (es) is dependent on yr social skills of charm, conversational financial management ability and charismatic outlook. The key is to evolve, to upgrade these assets of yes in exchange for potential partners of value. Break out of yr psychic script instilled in u by traumas and childhood. Go for it.
I believe in a lot of things & when it comes to love anything can happen & as for my someone she’s out there & it is a matter of time before love kicks us in the ass.
B , No if male , and this is hetero male specific , men outnumber women worldwide , esp the Middle East through to China , magnified by the disgusting practice of female infanticide , when the birth ratio is always male heavy as it is. Possibly , but still a challenge , if you are a woman , the genders are wired very differently , so conflict is more normal in relationships , than a well matched , blissful one.
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its a nice thought but the reality is very far off from this. Most will end up alone with increasing mental health issues like depression, and suicide. Others that somehow avoid killing themselves will only do so because of drugs and alcohol and they will be addicted to them for life.
I don't think there's someone for everyone and I'm totally fine with that. Maybe I'll find someone, maybe I won't and I don't see anything wrong with that.
1s and 2s are unacceptable to everyone; even other 1s and 2s. There are a few extremely fat, ugly, violent, and insane people that you and everyone else would reject even it they were your only choices.
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I belive the word "deserve" and all it's synonymes should be struck from all dictionnaires.
No one deserves anything or anyone, it's our actions who decide the path we take the people we let into our lives. Sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't bur it's not written in the stars in both cases
I think everyone is a possible partner but today’s 40 and unders weren’t raised right. Lazy fools focused on a good time over being competent. For men you need to focus on being capable over happy. Otherwise women won’t want you. As a woman you gotta focus on being hot and feminine. But men were raised without fathers to teach this to them and women were raised to believe men were aggressive rapists that want one thing.
Yes and no. I don't think everyone has one perfect match out there. I think you have the potential to be compatible with a lot of people, and it comes down to luck amd hard work if you find someone that you remain compatible with as you both grow and change through the years. The romantic in me believes just a little in soul mates, but I have yet to see a real life couple where I thought that they were perfectly meant for each other
Not necessarily. For most folk yes. But there's a few folk out there that are simply intolerable pricks who will never be happy with other people in their life.
Lesson - life isn't a one size fits all solution.
No there isn’t. At best there are people you’re much more strongly compatible with than others.
Many people though are too damaged to find anybody or to maintain healthy relationships, they’re compatible with nobody.
Full disclosure, I'm single af. Never been in love. I think we're all just people and some people you can live and work with and some you can't. As far as there being someone out there waiting for me, I don't believe it.
There isn't just "someone" out there for everyone. There is multple out there for everyone. You're not just compatible with 1 person. Dating is a number's game. It depends on many factors such as looks and game that determines your success in dating.
I don't believe that there's someone specifically for me but I do believe that if I try to be a good person and a good potential partner that I will find someone that more or less fits me :)
I will try and give a run down on life, no one person can really make all the right things happen, not in order but
1/ we all want some one we can depend on
2/ we all want a super human sexually
3/ we all want that great looking person, (we could have the one we want but they don't
measure up to others)
4/ we all want the one that keeps every one happy but want them for ourselves
5/ we all want to be loved in a certain way, but and its a big but
Yes I believe there’s somebody for everybody. They might not live near you or even speak your language and you might never meet them but yea somewhere in the world is the PERFECT match for everyone
There's no true Lady Unicorn or Prince Charming. Yr romantic match (es) is dependent on yr social skills of charm, conversational financial management ability and charismatic outlook. The key is to evolve, to upgrade these assets of yes in exchange for potential partners of value. Break out of yr psychic script instilled in u by traumas and childhood. Go for it.
I believe in a lot of things & when it comes to love anything can happen & as for my someone she’s out there & it is a matter of time before love kicks us in the ass.
I believe in hope. I believe in getting your act together, learning, growing and being your best as a human being, and taking some chances.
Otherwise, just accept what comes.
B , No if male , and this is hetero male specific , men outnumber women worldwide , esp the Middle East through to China , magnified by the disgusting practice of female infanticide , when the birth ratio is always male heavy as it is. Possibly , but still a challenge , if you are a woman , the genders are wired very differently , so conflict is more normal in relationships , than a well matched , blissful one.
its a nice thought but the reality is very far off from this. Most will end up alone with increasing mental health issues like depression, and suicide. Others that somehow avoid killing themselves will only do so because of drugs and alcohol and they will be addicted to them for life.
Wow what a positive post
@bones0271 i wish it wasn't true
With the billions of people on earth, there is just about everything one could want in others. They are out there.
Nope. Had an example in my family. He died alone. A person either has someone in his/her life.. or they don't. Nothing universally true.
yes... i also believe that a lot of people have their standards set too high and out of their league, and so they end up without.
I don't think there's someone for everyone and I'm totally fine with that.
Maybe I'll find someone, maybe I won't and I don't see anything wrong with that.
I don't believe that at all.
I don't think even think you would agree that there is someone out there for a kid with terminal cancer.
1s and 2s are unacceptable to everyone; even other 1s and 2s. There are a few extremely fat, ugly, violent, and insane people that you and everyone else would reject even it they were your only choices.