A guy I met at a party invited me on holiday with him, should I go?

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Friendlybro79 · Accepted Answer

My gut says you should not go until you know him better. I hate that only bad scenarios play out in my head but that's what is occurring.

If you can't find a friend at the party that you know that knows him this is a big red flag.

If you have multiple people that have known him for years and can vouch for his character I'd feel safer but still concerned.

I can't say this enough but you need to do some investigating to make sure the guy isn't a trafficker at the worst case. Unfortunately we live in a world where these things do happen. I admit it's unlikely but very possible.

If you can check off the stuff above and you find out the person is a decent human being you do have to also question his expectations. Are you going as friends or is this a romantic trip of some sort. Is he paying for you entirely? You can decide on that which makes you comfortable.

Tyrael · Accepted Answer

Only if the answer is yes to the following questions:

Are you willing to sleep with the guy? Cause it'll be expected, whether or not you think that's a reasonable expectation

Are you willing to risk becoming a statistic? Cause that's also potentially on the cards here

jennifer_bloom · Accepted Answer

It sounds fun but he might turn abusive, and just because a rose is pretty does not mean there are no hidden thorns, be careful. Like I love vacationing with family and I refuse to vacation cause I don’t want to risk CoVid.

countrygirl8754 · Accepted Answer

That a good way to get kill or kidnap. I think he just want to use u for sex no offense and sorry for that.

aliiiek · Answer

How your eye color change in those photo  Any way do not visit turkey alone

Xrynx · Answer

I would be careful about it specially if you have only known him for a short time, turkey is beautiful and i would like to go though has been known for human trafficking, not to make you paranoid😀😬

Also is he paying for you or are you paying for yourself?

Th3ft · Answer

I mean I would spend some time getting to k ow him first. Who knows what kind of guy he is. If in-fact he is the kind of guy you want to go to Turkey with.

Andres77 · Answer

Hell no! You won't make it out alive. Are you kidding me? That would be crazy foolish. He'll sell you to a human trafficker the day you arrive.

Anonymous · Answer

I'd say it's a bit to risky if you've only just met him at a party you should spend the time to get to know him both sk that you could enjoy thr holiday instead of ending up hating it because the relationship went bad. But we'll also from a safety point of view.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

Well, I guess that's one way to get a vagina. Have fun ;-)

Sparkie460 · Answer

When is he planning on taking you? I think it's too soon. You should get to know him better before you go away with him.

sheenagwapa · Answer

no because you just met him. ypu don't know if this person is safe or not.

Iron_Man · Answer

Are you a virgin are you interested in saving your virginity very simple don’t go

IsoUser · Answer

I wouldn't reccommend it considering that you hardly know this guy and that's just advice from a father not even related to you personally.

Surely · Answer

You sure that he isn’t a human trafficker and that you will be sold to the highest bidder?

TallAnon · Answer

If you don't know him, it wouldn't be very safe to go to a different country with him. But it does imply constant sex throughout.

flipflopBD5 · Answer

You might want to get to know him a bit longer. There are a lot of crazy guys out there looking to pray on young attractive women such as yourself.

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

This come across as you barely knowing him. I wouldn't suggest you going with him.

TrillXHippy · Answer

If I’m being 100% honest I don’t think you should and that’s not a great idea

Zolly99999 · Answer

Wow that seems aggressive.. do you feel safe doing that?

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Where are you located now and how well do you know him and how comfortable you are with him

bubblegunnn · Answer

This, give me Fresh movie vibes

slatyb · Answer

seems very risky. What do you know about him?

jshm2 · Answer

Look like you want to be a missing person, kiddo.

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