Girls in your early 20s: What's the oldest you'd have a romantic/intimate relationship with (no judgement, anon anyway)?

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Hannahm67 · Accepted Answer

The summer I graduated high school before I went off to college, I was babysitting for this rich couple as I had for a few years. during this time the wife's company was going through a merger or something so she was basically out of state every other week for a few months. The husband also worked late so I was picking up their 2 daughters from daycare every day at 3 and then watching them in the evening. it was a good gig, I would put them to bed by 7:30 and then hang out for 3-5ish hours until the husband got home.

I guess he wanted company with the wife gone so I started staying a while after he got home and chatting as he ate dinner. anyways he didn't come onto me but one night I got really horny and started masturbating in the living room under a blanket with my headphones in and some porn playing. So I didn't hear when he got home early. I am completely naked with just a blanket half-covering and my clothes were thrown across the room going to town on myself. I guess he was watching for a while, I cum and look up to see him touching himself through his pants.

We both don't know what to do and after an awkward silence, he tells me that he going to eat and I am welcome to finish. anyways this is the start of our intimacy, we didn't have sex since he didn't want to cheat on his wife. But every night when he got home he started paying me to masturbate as he watched and got himself off. He never touched me but he bought me toys and clothes to use. He was early 40's and I was 19 at the time so a big gap.

Babygirl_S · Accepted Answer

I find this question biased because women are young enough in their 20s and early 30s. When I was 20, I dated a guy 11 years older than me. It was a turn-on.
I believe men look their best in their late 20s and early 30s. Sure they may attract gold diggers after that but the girl won't be physically attracted. No one likes a receding hairline, a lack of eyebrows, wrinkles etc.
This question indirectly states that women are worth nothing after they reach a certain age and now people are excluding even the women in their mid and late 20s. What on earth is happening? Do women become "old" after their early 20s? It's a shame.

SkyExplorer · Answer

When I was 20 I dated a guy for year when he was 33, We had sex once near the start of the relationship but for the rest of it the most we done was kiss etc and we saw each other in underwear but never again. Now the oldest I'd date would maybe be <30

Rei13 · Answer

I’m 30 now but I still wouldn’t go past a 10 year age gap. I dated a guy who was around 5yrs older than me (I was 18/19, him 24) and a guy around 7yrs older than me (20/21, him 27) at one point and both times the gap felt strange. Honestly I prefer guys closer in age to me

victoriaxoxo · Answer

I have dated a few guys who were 30. I have hooked up with some 40/early 50 year olds. 40/50 was way too old and I wouldn't do it again. 30 was ok and the relationship was pleasant. However, I just add I have never been in love with anyone who isn't more or less my age.

TenderFantasy · Answer

I was too busy with college (and too shy) in my early 20's to date lol. But if I did, I think the oldest I would've gone was like 25/26, maybe 30 but at that age. I really thought 30 was over the hill! Lol, don't judge.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Even in my early 20s, i still prefererred no more than a 3 year age gap. But only one guy slid through the cracks and he was 9 years older 🤦‍♀️

Jemini_Crocket · Answer

Is 23 still early 20s though? So many guys limit themselves... I do not understand. Anyway, I voted early 30s but mid 30s could possibly work too.

Anonymous · Answer

My boyfriend is 23 years older than me and it's easily the best relationship I've ever had. I think there's a very high chance I'll marry him

Snsl153 · Answer

Late 30's or early 40's I guess. Anything more than that and we'd have too little in common for it to work.

Seinna · Answer

When I was in my early 20, men aged 30 and older seemed REALLY old.

LovingLoverReturned · Answer

Hmm, but you can't see the age of who voted and that would make all the difference.

TransAm85 · Answer

When I was 25 I met my now husband who was 33 at the time.

shaysh87 · Answer

When I was in my early 20s, the oldest I dated was 30

Anonymous · Answer

When I was in my 20s I dated men in their 40s , 50s, and 60s. ... same now that I'm in my 39s.. n it wasn't for money... I have a dd fetish.

Anonymous · Answer

On a sexual scale, I’d be fine with anyone between 25-45. For a relationship, 30 is the highest I’ll go.

fonduegirl · Answer

The oldest I'd go for mid thirties, because my celebrity crush Yu Shirota is 36.

Anonymous · Answer

My bad!! I voted late 30s, I didn’t read the question. I thought you asked found attractive

Andro36 · Answer

When i was 23 I met my husband he was 37 ;)

bakajana · Answer

I think no more than a decade older

lovedejj_xo · Answer

41….

Marianna546 · Answer

B lol

countrygirl8754 · Answer

40s that it

Kelly6 · Answer

Voted D

Ruenella_ · Answer

Early 30s.

blueskies97 · Answer

50 - my ex husband

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