Have you ever been in love?

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BullShark · Accepted Answer

I was once, a long time ago. But turns out, she never really felt the same way and was just using me as her emotional and sexual punching bag.

When I found out that she always still had eyes for her ex and was still seeing him in secret, I felt sad, angry, betrayed and in disbelief all at the same time. I asked her "five goddamn years.. what for? To go back to him? Why? Why even get so close to me if you never even loved me back? Was I a joke to you all this time?"

And her response was even more heartless. She showed no emotion and replied flatly that if there's anyone to blame, it's me and not her. Being with her for so long, I should have known that she was promiscuous and wanted new things which meant cycling between partners and changing things up a bit. Then she went on to finish off and say "it really is your own fault, y'know. What? Did you think just because we were together for five whole years, I love you now? You can use the word love however way you want haha. Anyways, I don't have time for this. See ya!"

It's been three years since that and I guess I haven't really given anyone a chance yet because my whole perception and idea of love has been blown away. I don't trust anyone anymore. So yeah.

The_Shadow_Dweller · Accepted Answer

I do not know what love is. But I have just liked people around me.

This feeling of liking intensified for a particular girl in 12th and later in this month for another girl.

I wished to spend the day with her and her friend with my friend, with her as my focus, in the form of movies and all, but she went to her hometown at 0600.

I can label it as a fling or extreme friendship, but not love definitely... hopefully.

wingattebaby16 · Accepted Answer

yes.. too many times to count.

then as an adult now, i look back and most of them were "in Lust" rather than in Love. I wanted a man in my life so bad to avoid being alone and depressed, i convinced myself i was In Love, had sex with him, did what he wanted, only to be dumped.

i have only been in love with 3 men in my life:

- My Step Dad Charlie. He was the best dad i ever had.

- My boyfriend, Greg when i was 19yo. I would have married him in a second. His job as a US Marshal took him away and we drifted apart.

- My husband, David. I lost him in 2015 when we were going to get married, because i made a stupid demand on a prenup to protect his assets. I got him back in 2018, Thank You Karma for holding your hand out to me, after knocking me on my ass in 2015.

KoolKita · Accepted Answer

Yup. Unfortunately, after knowing him for a couple months, the very week that I said in my heart that I loved him I heard that he liked my friend (who absolutely no one can hate).

The worst part is that she didn't like him back but she played along with everything that he did, and it broke my heart every time he went to her.

wheresmrcunnunglis · Answer

Nope, only been exposed to the toxic manipulated forms of it that have been thrust onto me due to my naivety during my younger years. ( hold your damn pity ). I cultivated self-love so I now know what healthy form of love is when I come across it and will be open to it for sure. 🥰

UdosUNDERDEVELOPMENT · Answer

Love for me is just trying to be good , comfortable , and pleasant in a situation whilst trying to invest and sustain another persons comfort , pleasantnessess , and goodnessess without inflicting abuses and evils onto self and others , in all of the existences and all of the universes , throughout everyones and everythings endless existences.

exitseven · Answer

I asked a girl to come to my place and I. would cook her dinner. It was our second date. When we sat down and started to talk she asked me if I had ever been in love. Then she asked me if I was looking to fall in love.

I have been in love four times.

TwiNshichamp1 · Answer

Yes yes, but never got the love back 😑.

I remember this really broke my heart, I was studying so I drop in (class top 3 positions) and was the first love for me, so intense and over whelming I remember I cried so much and was dying inside. Was 2016 I moved on already lol

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

As for me I have been in love & every time I order a pizza I’m in love.

LilyoftheLake · Answer

I think so. It's certainly the most intense feeling I've ever experienced, if not love...

Kha0tiic_xo · Answer

Yes I have been, only once and it was amazing while it lasted which was 8 years but we grew apart, and that hurt but we stayed friends and we remain friends to this day!

FreyaRed · Answer

Yeah. It was wonderful teen love that died slowly over years while growing up and realizing love has no place in this world.

Blackcosmo · Answer

I currently do and it's my first time. I'm not quite sure if it's love but I don't know what to call it. It's not your typical crush.

Lionman95 · Answer

Yes but it was never mutual, so I´ll stay single until some kind of miracle comes around.

TheBootyChest · Answer

I think I was in love with the idea of love. Or just the feeling I got for thinking I was in love.

Jen_27 · Answer

No but I want to I really want someone who's there for me

A_stranger · Answer

The romantic love? Or any kind of love (with parents, friends family)?

Rosexøxø · Answer

Yes. I could go into detail, but the simple answer is yes.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Yeah, my first girlfriend, still regret not proposing before she left for Poland

Hanrej · Answer

Yes but that is somthing that belong to youth and innosence. These days when you becom disillusioned all you can really hope for is a match.

Kevin1510 · Answer

Yes for 6 years and never told her and we are so far now🥺😔🙃

Pinay_ako · Answer

Yes 🙌 💕

DishLady · Answer

Yup.

Gent207 · Answer

Yes and it's maddening.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Yes. I don't like it.

DavidRaul · Answer

Yeah once and haven't loved any woman since then

Anonymous · Answer

Once or twice and they didn’t like me back

LavLavLuv · Answer

yeah.. kinda suckz

Iron_Man · Answer

Yes I have before

Andro36 · Answer

Yes. It is a great feeling

Zygum · Answer

😄😀, strange question

Anonymous · Answer

Yes. However, it did not last. 😂

Anonymous · Answer

I was… but she didn’t like me back

irmaavila301 · Answer

Every other month

A_Ali · Answer

Yep I've been in love before

jimmy2 · Answer

Yes it lasted 36 years, one month and five hours

NathanDavis · Answer

Yes.

Bluemax · Answer

I have.

Nikki1989 · Answer

A few times.

Wubs3000 · Answer

I am rn

jahaims · Answer

Yep.

Twalli · Answer

I am currently.

pink-jilly · Answer

yeeees

htmndg183 · Answer

Yes.

EaterPeter · Answer

Yes, more than once.

Passing_by · Answer

Sure have.

eagle1951 · Answer

yes i have

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