I love fat people. Id choose one as a life partner if she would choose me
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Probably because you friendzoned everyone that shows interest
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not everyone really finds "love" so easily. besides, physical conditions is also something people consider while dating or choosing their partner. "fat" is more related to the opposite of "fit". for some men bigger women can be more attractive than others; you can be described as wonderful, look pretty, attractive, sexy, big tits, have a wonderful clothing style etc. maybe you didn't come across such a men you find yourself attractive. a friend of mine who was very handsome was into 'big girls'. don't forget that back in the history, big women were seen as more healthy, stronger, more fertile etc.
An 8,000-year-old statuette of what could be a fertility goddess has been unearthed at a Neolithic site in Turkey, according to archaeologists.
https://www.livescience.com/56515-neolithic-goddess-figurine-uncovered.html
Love isn't completely unlinked from visual attraction, specially sexually. Doesn't mean they're ugly, but it's unattractive.
Personally, I can see myself dating a more chubby person, but I'm also physically active and would like to bring that to activities I'd want to do with someone. I'd like her to change her ways and lose weight, for her health's sake as well. There are other things more important to a partner than her looks, but I'm certainly favouring the more attractive girl out out of two with similar personalities and the same treatment towards me, considering that both have no differentials.Being fat is not who you are. If get a cold. You get a cold you are not the cold itself. You are not fat. You have fat. If you don’t want to have fat anymore. Figure out how to get rid of fat. There is no one that cares more about your life then you do. Take care of yourself. You deserve it.
It's not so difficult if you are realistic in your expectations. If you are fat and only looking for guys that aren't, that's not realistic. Start looking for guys in your league (other fat people). I'm kind of fat myself and it's not realistic for me to only want women who are fit, skinny, etc.
What baffles me is why would anyone even want to date as a fat person. How little self awareness people have. When I was fat it didn't even want to try. It was very obvious that first I need to get myself in shape before putting myself out there.
Open a magazine. Like it or not you're a human balance sheet. Everything about you is being weighed in measured when it comes to relationships. Looks, weight, occupation, social circles etc. Dating is investing in another person. If that person is fat or ugly it affects your value as a person. It would be nice to say we out grew this in Jr. High. But in reality society never really does.
Being physically unhealthy makes it hard for people to want to invest their time into you. You aren’t going to be around as long for them to love. It’s a worse return on their emotional investment
I think fat people not even finding other fat people attractive is part of the problem.
It's unhealthy, less men will find you attractive therefore less men will engage with you at all. Many women gain a lot of weight after giving birth as well, if you are already overweight that could be a scary compounding.
Harsh reality - assuming you're otherwise healthy and have no underlying issues - why should anyone take the time to enter into a relationship if you lack the self control and drive to be fit?
Life is a do-it-yourself endeavor. Get at it.Well for many people, being overweight is not a sexual preference.
Most of the time, being fat means much more than just the number on the scales. It means some personality traits which are also unattractive.
Because typically being fat is unattractive, both physically and mentally.
The look of body fat is unattractive. It shows they don't take care of themselves. I don't like the feel of it.
The answer is in the question
People are judgmental assholes.
Attraction is not love.
cause no one wants to date you lol
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