I made a mistake a while ago and forgot my boyfriend was out of town when my calls were getting dropped but he was still active on social media. I decided to confront him about it and he got angry and we started arguing before he decided to hang up. 2 days later I went out of town myself and saw that I had no service but could still be on social media which made me feel horrible and I apologized. The same day on social media late at night I was scrolling through Instagram stories and saw he posted a girl on there. My heart sunk at that moment but I kept thinking to myself that I didn’t want to overreact incase that’s a family member. The next day, I found myself blocked on social media so I decided to call his number which was not blocked. He told me that I just pissed him off and he would unblock me in a few days. A few days go by and I receive another call from him and we talked like we normally do for about 5 minutes before we hung up. I hadn’t heard from him for a few days after that and I was still blocked on social media so I decided to give him another call to see what was going on and once again it goes to voicemail. At this point I don’t know if I’m blocked or his phone is off , so I had a friend check for me and she confirmed that my number was in fact blocked. My heart dropped to my feet when she said that. He now blocked me off of all platforms and there was no way to reach him. This happened last night as well. I don’t know if I should give him the space he needs or look for someone else. This was a 2 year relationship that fell over a small misunderstanding.
Sounds like he is immature and doing this to "punish" you or he thinks the relationship is just over. Either way, incredibly immature way to handle things. If he wants the relationship to be over, he needs to just say it, not be juvenile about it and block you.
If he is blocking you just to send a message, that is even more messed up and ridiculous. Honestly, he doesn't seem like a very good match considering the details you give. He doesn't sound like he should be in a relationship at all and doesn't know how to handle one.
Communication is one of if not the most important part of a relationship. Once he has cut that off, there really is no hope. Again, if he did it to punish you in some way, I would really reevaluate whether this is the type of person you want to be with. I know it is tough moving on but might be your best bet. Good luck to you.
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He’s done. You should move on. It’s not likely to be a stable relationship. But you’re there so you know more than I.
Okay, I don't really understand what happened here. You originally confronted your boyfriend about?
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What do you mean if you should give him the space he needs? He already took the space he needs, it's not up to you. Unless you're planning to stalk him or something.
It sounds like you guys had some pretty serious communication problems. Maybe it would be better to stay broken up.
Because he sees you two as no longer together. It is indeed messed up.
Doesn't seem like a very good boyfriend to me, but you do you
Move on. Thats the best way.
Social media has ruined dating and courtship.
he's' no longer your boyfriend.
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