Is it likely my boyfriend lied about being in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

The only thing he ever mentioned is he had a relationship once and hasn't dated in 3 years. He's my first relationship and we decided to take things to the next level on the 5th month.

It was an awkward and painful moment. It took several attempts (to place it on the right location), which he kept saying ''oh dear I'm sorry, I'm sorry'', making me even more nervous, not helping much. He also didn't seem like he knew anything either. In fact, he seemed nervous too, not relaxed either... which obviously didn't help me. He apologized again in the end and said it'll be better next time.

I heard guys lied about their past by adding more to the story. Is it likely he was also a virgin?

[Fineasaaa]

Nope, being in a relationship doesn't mean that you need to lose your virginity with that person, it all depends upon the situation and how much you are into that person, so your boyfriend might be telling the truth, just so you know

[Asker]

Ok. It's just that he seemed nervous, as if he didn't know what he was doing either.

[Fineasaaa]

Exactly!

[spartan55]

Just because your boyfriend sucks on bed doesn't make him a liar.

[spartan55]

*in bed

[Asker]

Ok. It seemed like he didn't know what he was doing.

[spartan55]

Probably because he doesn't