Is it likely my boyfriend lied about his past?

[Anonymous]

We've been dating for nearly 6 months and I was curious about his past. He didn't say much. He mentioned about being in 2 long-term relationships.
I'm low count too. He's only my 2nd. Both of us are 25 years old.

I've noticed this though:
- He's similar to me; doesn't talk too much on social gatherings
- We were offered wine and a couple beers on a New Year's Eve family reunion. Someone asked him if that was his first time drinking. He said no but his expression said otherwise. He got tipsy easily.
- His parents were very happy to meet me. His mother said that we're proud he finally brought a girlfriend home. He interrupted her quickly and told me that he just isn't used to introducing girls to his parents. Then he changed the topic.
- We got intimate not so long ago and I had to help him stick it in. He got it right on the 4th attempt. He seemed to blush and said "I'm not new. It happens after a break-up, you forget at first". He sounded a bit nervous though.

Is it likely he lied about his supposedly 2 past relationships and I was really his first girl he ever had?

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+1 y

He really seemed like he didn't know much, as if he really haven't done it before. Also the way he got nervous and changed the topic after his mother spoke.

[jspl90]

I think its likely he may have fudged things about the past well let it go for a while and if things go really well and he is more confident etc just ask him to come out with it🤔men do get judged for being a virgin for not being experienced etc so he may have been embarassed to say that he has no experience

[Asker]

I wanted to ask him about it in a way that he doesn't feel embarrassed. I once heard that sometimes the real answer to a guy's past is 2-3 times less than the number he gives. So it makes sense with him; he said 2 and the number is 0.
Honestly there is nothing to be embarrassed about it. The people that do virgin shaming or find inexperience a turn off are probably in the high count.

[jaybee281]

He probably is - But definitely in good intentions - He thinks it'd be a turn off for you if you thought you're his first or if he's never been with anyone as well as the inexperience that comes with it - we all have our reasons - Just know it isn't bad and hopefully you don't take it badly

[Asker]

It wasn't bad. I just sucks that I didn't get to meet him 4 years ago. He would've been my first at the time. I lost it shortly after my 21st b-day. I wish it would've been with him instead of my stupid ex boyfriend who was a total jerk and cheated on every girl.

[jaybee281]

In some way I'm glad to hear that - Are you going to ask him about it? If you do don't get mad if he gets all defensive or something..

[Asker]

yeah I suppose I can ask him about it
I think the girls that find that a turn off or shame him for that are likely the ones that sleep around. My friends and I actually find it irritating when a guy brags about his excessive sexual conquests.

[slatyb]

It seems highly likely. I think he was embarrassed to admit he was still a virgin. But it's a pretty innocuous lie, quite different from lying to you about something he has done that directly affects you.

If you like him, you might let it go for a while.

[888theGreat]

lucky you if so. Why do women complicate everything? Women are like Satan. Satan is in Heaven and tries to change Heaven and is cast out. I have feeling most women won't make it to heaven for that reason. No troubles , no worries , and they still won't be satisfied.

[Asker]

Actually I find that sweet. I wish he would've been my first instead of my cheating, player ex boyfriend.

[Jamie05rhs]

😅 He totally fuckin' lied! That dude was a virgin! I guarantee it.

[Asker]

To be honest I think that was sweet

[Jamie05rhs]

Okay lol

[chilldude33]

sounds like it

[Asker]

I'll try to ask him in a way he doesn't feel embarrassed.