I'm low count too. He's only my 2nd. Both of us are 25 years old.
I've noticed this though:
- He's similar to me; doesn't talk too much on social gatherings
- We were offered wine and a couple beers on a New Year's Eve family reunion. Someone asked him if that was his first time drinking. He said no but his expression said otherwise. He got tipsy easily.
- His parents were very happy to meet me. His mother said that we're proud he finally brought a girlfriend home. He interrupted her quickly and told me that he just isn't used to introducing girls to his parents. Then he changed the topic.
- We got intimate not so long ago and I had to help him stick it in. He got it right on the 4th attempt. He seemed to blush and said "I'm not new. It happens after a break-up, you forget at first". He sounded a bit nervous though.
Is it likely he lied about his supposedly 2 past relationships and I was really his first girl he ever had?
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I think its likely he may have fudged things about the past well let it go for a while and if things go really well and he is more confident etc just ask him to come out with it🤔men do get judged for being a virgin for not being experienced etc so he may have been embarassed to say that he has no experience
I wanted to ask him about it in a way that he doesn't feel embarrassed. I once heard that sometimes the real answer to a guy's past is 2-3 times less than the number he gives. So it makes sense with him; he said 2 and the number is 0.
Honestly there is nothing to be embarrassed about it. The people that do virgin shaming or find inexperience a turn off are probably in the high count.