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I listen and give advice at the same time. 💜
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i like to think so. i mean, i’m not the most empathetic person, but i keep things private and i give good advice. but if someone is looking for an emotional response, i can’t do that, it makes me uncomfortable. my responses are usually pretty blunt and straightforward. i don’t lie, so if people are looking for the kind of conversation that goes like “omg, tiffany do i look fat in this dress?” and they expect me to respond w “omgggg never brittany, ur the hottest person alive” that ain’t gonna happen. i tell it like it is. some people can handle it, some not sm.
It’s weird because I avoid people as much as I can, I avoid hearing their stories or letting them know mine…BUT it’s like if I attract people to tell me their lives, darkest and deepest secrets. I figure, I’ll just listen and never repeat what this person has told me today because sometimes the things I hear are extreme. So am I someone easy to confide in? I guess because people look for me and don’t seem to have a problem telling me their lives.
I think so. If someone tells me a secret I never repeat it.
I think I am. I’ll give everyone my opinion and I don’t go around telling others business.
I think of myself as a listener, I like helping others and reason with them, instead of telling them my personal things. Usually my friends rely on me for their issues and make confidences in order to receive advices and support.
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People at my job apparently think so lol
I hope that people see me that way because I always want to be there for everyone. One of my guy friends was there for me yesterday and was there to just listen and I hope he knows that he can always come to me to talk and I will just be there to listen and give him hugs like he did for me! 😊 I think I am someone that others can confide in and if people don’t see me that way then I will do my best to let them know they can! If there is someone that needs/wants to talk I am here to listen and give you virtual hugs.
I would say that family, friends and even people I've just met feel comfortable talking to me. Someone always says that they feel a comfort around me or that they know they can trust me. And I suppose it is easy to confide in me. (I hope I'm using that term correctly).
I have gotten more closed off in the recent years. I used to be quite an open book but no anymore.
Not sure if it’s a result of getting older and/or being hardened from so many bad experiences.
So I notice less people confide in me. Maybe it’s reciprocal.
Yes. If anyone feels like venting I've got unlimited attention. I will listen to everything they say, try to comfort them, and give them advice.
Yes, I think so, because people often ask for my help and advice, they're almost always grateful for the advice I give, and I'm very good at keeping things confidential.
yes, some have...
I would not like to say it is easy for them though
but they decided to trust me with it and they have felt safe with me
Yeah I am.
my friends find it hysterical as strangers at a bar will open up to me and tell me everything.
I think so. I’ve been told that I’m a really good listener and people close to me know that whatever they say to me will stay between us.
seems like it...
i am open, honest, often blunt, but i am easy to talk to.
I think I am good with peoples feelings and I think I am someone people can confide in, but I don't think many do because I'm not close to a lot of people in that way.
I mean I guess. Since I tend to hear people out most of the time even tho deep down I don’t want to lol. But yh I try to be nice and hear them out
Yes, or at least used to be
After meeting too many fake once I am less so, at least before I know them, then I belive I am
Yes but I am not the best st giving advice or checking up on them as I have a memory of a goldfish 😂
I play that role more often in real life then I would imagine a lot of people on here would believe.
yeah I am and won't tell anyone unless.. you are committing a crime and maybe depending on what it is.
Definitely. In fact I have been one of those people in my achool life.
Yes. I'm a vault. But they just choose not to.
Ya
I get a lot of friends who ask me for advice.. for relationships.. work, pretty much everything.. The idea is to listen to them fully and then give your opinion
Yes. All the time. Which creates problems for me.
Whether they want to or not
They will confide
Yea actually many people do it cause I am a good listener and give good advice
Yeah I am but I don't wanna hear people's problems though lol just like I don't run around telling people mine.
If I get one on one time with the person, easy peasy.
I think of myself as someone who could confide in me
Kinda. I'm cold, I don't care, I don't judge either. Works.
Yes, and for good reason. Their secrets are safe with me.
Yes am kind of. Cos people tend to open up certain things to me. Even strangers
I'm a good listener. I'll give advice if requested but I won't tell anyone if I'm asked not to say anything.
Yes I am so that goes with out saying I hear a lot of thing's I sometimes don't want to.
God Bless
Apparently. People just come to me. Maybe I have a trustworthy face or something 🤷♂️
I like to think i am sure. depends on how others feel though lol
I'd like to be, but I think I come off as cold and distant a lot of the time, but I do really care when someone confides in me
My friends apparently think so, or at least they call me wise ;-;
Totally because i love making people laugh and feel better when their sad
Depends on subject not Sunday. My Sunday are taking.
Yes cuz I dont spread rumors about what I know
Yes, I don't gossip. People tell me stuff all the time and I try to be helpful if possible. Life is hard.
Yea I'm a virgo and the top 5 most trustworthy signs are 1. capricorns 2. scorpios 3. virgos 4. cancers 5. aquariuses
I do have that face that people tell weird shit to.
Yes, I been asked my opinion from so many people on their issues
I'd like to think so.
Yes. I can also keep a secret.
Yes, I can keep a secret.
I am a confidant to many people.
Used to be, years ago. Now no
Yes. My Grandmother and I have that in common.
It's happened before, so I guess
Yes, I'm definitely the go to person in my group.
Sure, I even give helpful advice sometimes.
I feel like i am yes
Absolutely. I am a good listener.
I'm an open book. I don't hide what I'm feeling.
I like to think that I am.
💯💯💯💯 even if they commited murder lmfao 😂
Confide?
I don't know what that means
Ahh. Yes. But if the matter is really severe I probably would say something.
Severe as if say for example someone told me they killed somebody
I am, most people don't confide in me though.
Yes I am and sometimes I hate it!!!
Yes absolutely
To a fault. Yeah
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