One of my ex sister in law she is 30 but people always tell her she looks 19 and looks good for her age she can even be a model if she wanted to. But sadly her husband age 28 wants to divorce her a few months ago we found out he cheated on my friend with a 22 year old Jezebel. She is a good wife she cleans , cooks for him comes from a good family. Why would he do this cheat on her with a younger trash. Younger woman ages18-24 don't have self respect they dress all slutty. I don't get it, He excuse is that he was forced to married her because his last girlfriend my laws claim she wasn't a virgin and that out of revenge my ex brother in law would make a living hell my ex sister in law. Guys my generation have good wife's why would they want younger woman? I'm noticing men my own age are getting divorce just to get with younger woman, Why?
This is the unexpected back lash to women's liberation on the social construct of marriage. As women are more liberated so do men feel more so.
I had a wife of 24 years, and she cooked, cleaned and cared for the children. She even worked for 12 out of the 24 years. But when she worked she kept her money in separate account and I paid for everything... and she still acted untitled to more and insisted she invest more in the house hold than I did. In moments of temper I had to point out that if she thinks doing laundry, cooking and cleaning means that I would go hungry, wear dirty cloths or live in pig sty without her she's fooling her self.
Form the outside in you have no idea what that marriage is really like for them. If you think being beautiful on the outside is all that matters then you're mistaken. Men need to feel appreciated and given gratitude. Nobody preach about mean rights, and women feel more empowered then ever to impose themselves or look for injustice with any marriage. But with comes consequences and this just one of many consequences. Men no longer feel as limited in their choices, because there is no real consequence to infidelity in divorce law. My ex-wife cheated on me serval times with less attractive people then me, and she still got 50% of everything in the divorce. I am not saying don't support your sister, but honestly the marriage failed in some way and she needs to take some degree of responsibility for that.
Marriage is a social construct, that serves more these days to keep people trapped in unproductive and toxic relationships. Marriage itself is not a legitimate contract, the other person does not have to life up to any of the promises made, and still get half of everything even when they are very self destructive types of people. Divorce laws serve to keep people in these types of marriages, because its too costly and burdensome to end it, when in all honestly its over.
I am not anti marriage, but if you haven't ever been married to the worst type of person, then you can't relate to why people do the things they do in marriage. And if you are happily married the love and cherish that person every day of your life together, never take anything they do for you for granted.
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1. It is a mistake to be too judgmental about someone else's marriage because we rarely know both sides of all the important issues and conflicts that arose.
2. People cheat because they don't take their promises seriously.
3. People sometimes cheat with younger partners but sometimes with older partners. Sometimes with partners who are far less attractive than their spouse. I think cheating is about the thrill and excitement of doing something forbidden.
Not sure why but it's super creepy when these 30 year old men go after 18 year old girls like date someone your own age. I think a lot of it has to do with these guys having shit personalities and they suck in bed so they have to go after younger naive girls who don't know any better.
And I don't even wanna hear about how younger girls have better fertility. If that's the case then these guys should have got with a 18 year old when they were also 18 and had childern.
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So, it sounds like there was some drama surrounding your ex-SIL’s marriage in the first place, but let’s set that aside. The issue is that divorce is easily obtained today. Combine that with typical male and female behavior when it comes to attraction: men tend to value indicators of fertility which are strongest in a woman’s early 20s, and women tend to value status and achievement. Many men who marry in their early 20s are not in their early 20s are not in their prime and might find they have more options as they approach 30. That said, about 80% of divorces are filed by women, not men. In general, as belief in monogamy and commitment decreases, as economic difficulty for young men increases, you will invariably see a reversion to the historical norm of older men coupling with younger women. I’m not saying it is right, but it is what we’ve signed up for with a lot of social changes that were intentionally made.
Where are you from for an arranged marriage to be normal? Also the fact that it was arranged most likely led to this outcome, that and the fact that the husband has no sense of duty.
You have already answered your question in your description. Young women are trashy and slutty. Older women are more nurturing and looking for stability with well-established guys. Now young men don't have many choices like older successful men. A lot of guys don't get that many dates like young women and they try to compensate it, later. Those younger men and women grow up and repeat the same, it's just a circle of misery.
I had no idea that men usually prefer younger women. Women are attractive regardless of the age I think it's the only way around older women usually have much better bodies and they have a much more passionate and loving attitude.
People in all generations don’t take marriage very seriously now.
What exactly does your ex sister in law do? People cheat because they can get away with it.
We have money status and we can get the 19-24 years.
Why would we date a post wall or near wall woman?
She should sealed that deal at 21For the same reason women don’t appreciate men until they hit the wall at 30
Personal preferences I guess.
We do. Of course we do.
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