Do you think people are in serious relationships for the wrong reasons and were you in a relationship before for the wrong reasons?

[Anonymous]

[CA4444]

Can be, if the relationship is based on one of the persons needs, it’s selfish and ends at some point (hopefully anyway).

Yea i was in a relationship for the wrong reasons before (i was needy for love and affection and he offered that + protection). It’s pathetic but I learnt… just beware that many girls are insecure like that and just want that love and affection high. Men also want that but usually they’re more needy with sex…

[Asker]

One wrong reason is the sex. Sometimes we think we've found the right one because the sex is good. Sometimes we're with the person because they have a lot of money too.

[LazerBean]

I think a lot of people are. You can usually tell by how well they are working and by the dynamics of the relationship.