Picture this: you’re at a party with your S/O, then they send you a sexy/explicit/dirty text? How will you react and what would you do?

Pinay_ako

Influencer Master Age: 42

Leave the party asap? Wait till the party’s over?

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Thatgirlcvp Follow
Xper 1 Age: 29 , mho 33%

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If we are married I would jump his bones and have sex with him for hours.
If he's my boyfriend I wouldn't appreciate it. I'm waiting for marriage so there's no point in texting like that if it's not going to lead anywhere since I am serious in waiting.
If we are serious I will reply something nice so I don't ruin his self-esteem but know that I don't plan on doing anything until we are married.
If it were with a boyfriend where we just started dating I would set a boundary with him not to text like that. It would be his first strike and the second one I would be ending things.

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Dnice1 Follow
Guru Age: 25

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Leave asap and when I get to him it's about to go down 😉

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- Pinay_ako
  
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  Round 1: FIGHT!!!
  
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- Dnice1
  
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  Lol no fighting, something else 😏
  
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- Pinay_ako
  
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  🤣 hence round 1 in the sheets! 😉 😈
  
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- Inbox
  
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  @Pinay_ako Finish her!
  
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- Pinay_ako
  
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  @Inbox 🤣 damn right finish her!
  
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- Inbox
  
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  With my girl, it was 3 times last night, with 6 special... moves 😈
  
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- Pinay_ako
  
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  @Inbox 🤣 what fight combos did you use to finish 😂
  
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- Inbox
  
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  1. Pulling all the way out, then immediately slamming inside all the way in her like a battering ram to break down the walls of a fortress.
  2. While all the way inside her, move around in a complete 360 degree angle so she can feel my dick inside from all angles.
  3. While all the way inside her, keep throbbing my dick inside
  4. Do all 3 above, but do it hard and fast
  5. Do all 3 above, but then go slow while passionately making out with her, suck and play with her goddess double E boobs, then proceed to bite her neck like a vampire.
  6. When I'm about orgasm, go harder and harder until she is screaming my name, then with my dick all the way deep inside, I cum inside of her.
  7. After 20 mins, use my cum as lube and repeat steps 4 and 5, but also start to finger her at her G spot (she has a fairly large one near the front of her vagina that is ultra sensitive).
  8. At this point she usually has cummed 3 - 4 times at minimum, so I then unexpectedly stop ramming her, go on top of her or to her side and just cuddle for 5 - 10 mins.
  9. While making out out, I start to tease by lightly biting and sucking on her boobs, rubbing her vagina outside as I harden, then I go back to fucking her slowly and passionately.
  10. I then start do #3 again and finally blow my load inside her again.
  11. Take another 20 min break and might do a quickie later so that we can fall asleep in each other's arm while cuddling and watching The Walking Dead.
  
  ---- Is this enough info for you? LOL
  
  In all seriousness though, despite girls telling me I'm good in bed (especially with my current girlfriend), deep down, I always feel I"m not doing enough and I'm terrified of getting her and me bored in the bed room so I keep trying to come up with new ideas. Do you ladies have any ideas I could implement?
  
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- Dnice1
  
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  @Inbox find out what she likes and give it to her maybe throw in a few surprises while doing so. Maybe try new things with her that she might like and you too to spice it up.
  
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- Inbox
  
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  I've asked her multiple times, but she always say's she open to anything and never really goes into specifics (she's laid back in a good way). In this case, it can be frustrating though. I'll keep digging though.
  
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- Dnice1
  
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  @Inbox I'm sure you'll figure out something. Loved reading your naughty combos 😊
  
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- Pinay_ako
  
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  @Inbox 🤣 damn. This sounds like FATALITY 🔥
  
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- The_FallenOne
  
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  This is by far my favorite thread on this app 😂 y'all are ao funny
  
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- Pinay_ako
  
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  @The_FallenOne you are too! Not everyone gets the humour 🤣 or have ☝️
  
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- Inbox
  
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  @Dnice1 @Pinay_ako Thanks ladies 😉
  
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CaptainOverthink Follow
Yoda Age: 32 , mho 40%

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If I had a S/O.. I imagine..

Depends on the text.. and the context.
I'd find a way to draw out the tension a bit more before acting upon the urge to either leave or find a place that suits the mood.

But then again, I am imagining and I know full well that reality isn't that dreamy.
Hard to say what my reaction would be, depends a lot on the mood of the party and how intoxicated or whatnot I am or isn't.

Knowing myself I might just take her to the dancefloor (or make one) and work an angle there until we're off the rails someplace.

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CalmMind Follow
Xper 3 Age: 36 , mho 45%

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Given the S/O status and the fact that most partying I do is at a VERY good friend's house (my friend), I just go into his spare room and clean up afterwards. It's my home away from home anyways lol. The louder the better just to make it awkward.

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- Pinay_ako
  
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  Thug life 😎
  
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- CalmMind
  
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  lol not at all. My friends are weird lol and we have some prudes in our group that we all like fucking with from time to time.
  
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- CalmMind
  
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  To clarify I'm a nerd of Northen European descent so I don't pull off the "thug life" meme very well XD
  
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- Pinay_ako
  
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  🤣 well your move is thug life with no fucks given fr 😂 Nerds can be thugs too 😝
  
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Loveisgirthy Follow
Xper 6 Age: 29

1 y

Has to depend if we're with the right people around us just cuz I wouldn't want any interruption but I'd have half a mind to come up behind and grope her titty, bring her in. Kiss that, smack that, bend that back back, I'd come in n clapper lap her right there. And I hope everyone can take something home from that, love better and love wetter... Or we inspire an impromptu orgy which is fine. And they can show us what they learned. As long as we stay in our respectable partners.

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- Pinay_ako
  
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  Oh wow that’s wild
  
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DizzyDesii Follow
Master Age: 29 , mho 55%

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Im not into parties so we’ll start one of our own, center floor. Ladies and gents, grab some popcorn and enjoy the show

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- Pinay_ako
  
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  *Grabs 🍿 👀
  
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- DizzyDesii
  
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  😂😂😂
  
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Texasgal95 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 29 , mho 30%

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If it’s at the club or a bar waiting to get home or to hotel depending on if you’re out of town or noDepending on where the party is at find empty room and have your way with each other. If it’s at the club or a bar waiting to get home or to hotel depending on if you’re out of town and

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BullShark Follow
Xper 6 Age: 25 , mho 63%

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Depends. Am I the host or are we a guest at someone else's party? Either way, it doesn't matter. If I'm with a crowd, I'll excuse myself, find my S/O, excuse for them to their friends and quietly sneak into an empty room or unoccupied bathroom. Whatever happens then will probably be drowned out by the loud music.

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MCheetah Follow
Master Age: 37 , mho 45%

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I'd ignore it until the party was over or make a joke about it. Guess it depends if it was a text or an image.

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- Pinay_ako
  
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  Sexy text saying “I want you inside me now”
  
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- J97tfb
  
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  Mchertah is scared now
  
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- MCheetah
  
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  @Pinay_ako
  I'd tell her I'm not into the vore fetish or being eaten by anything.
  
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- Pinay_ako
  
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  @J97tfb 🤣 nah he’s here
  
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AviatorTom Follow
Master Age: 57

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1.6K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

It really depends on who the hosts are. If we know them well, we might just stay after the party. In any case, we wouldn't leave the party immediately, we'd at least stay until the first people start to leave.

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Emiliamazing Follow
Yoda Age: 46 , mho 58%

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I think it depends on how long we were at the party. I wouldn’t say that either of us of ever sent anything explicit, but we’ve given each other hints via text, a certain look, etc.

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Nathan25 Follow
Xper 3 Age: 26

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Depends on their love language. Tailor a specific message with imagery that makes them think of you fulfilling their love language desire. Gifts, speech, touch etc

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- J97tfb
  
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  Mine is touch
  
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- Nathan25
  
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  @J97tfb im on it
  
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ObscuredBeyond Follow
Guru Age: 41 , mho 41%

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"Party's done at 7. After-party at my place, just for you and me, is at 8. ;-)"
Though, I find this entire situation highly unlikely.

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clampfan101 Follow
Master Age: 36

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Immediately hide my phone and try to calmly ask why she sent it.

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- Pinay_ako
  
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  Coz she wants you?
  
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Guardian45 Follow
Guru Age: 49

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LOL! I have NO IDEA! It NEVER happened to me!!!

Unless, you count the time my girlfriend took me to a sex club...

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- Pinay_ako
  
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  If it happens, what is your plan?
  
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- Guardian45
  
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  I'm often take up in the heat of the moment, so I wouldn't be surprised getting caught in flagrante delicto!🤣
  
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PamelaRivers Follow
Xper 5 Age: 23 , mho 31%

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not sure, would depend on what the status of our relationship was.

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Lucy68 Follow
Yoda Age: 26 , mho 32%

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Depends honestly but I personally would want to leave.

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PJH359 Follow
Xper 5 Age: 51 , mho 34%

1 y

I love spontaneity so I would act on that signal immediately! Show me the nearest alleyway, back seat or hotel LOL

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NathanDavis Follow
Master Age: 34 , mho 33%

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3.3K opinions shared on Relationships topic.

when she would do that, it was an statement rather than a suggestion...

"we are leaving early..." pretty much, lol

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Tomsta Follow
Guru Age: 31

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547 opinions shared on Relationships topic.

I'd continue, i get a kick outta that kinda thing

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- Pinay_ako
  
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  Continue what
  
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- Tomsta
  
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  Well if she sent a dirty text etc. i'd continue the conversation. Like go full on sexting mode
  
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- Pinay_ako
  
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  Not act on it?
  
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- Tomsta
  
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  Na, i prefer the teasing and blue balling. Also you can really test each other's 'limits' as it were. I prefer sexting over actual sex, actual sex does nothing for me. Partially because i know i'm crap at it (due to inexperience) so why bother? Unless she is willing to teach me what to do
  
  Yes i know i make it sound like a skill, because it is. What else is it meant to be
  
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- Pinay_ako
  
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  Sex does nothing for you? How come
  
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- Tomsta
  
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  I don't cum, simple
  
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- Pinay_ako
  
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  Ever?
  
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- Tomsta
  
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  More often than not i don't cum, maybe 1 out of every 20 times, the meds i'm on don't help. But even when i wasn't it was maybe 1 in 10
  
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RealDaveThomas Follow
Xper 4 Age: 35

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NEVER send dirty texts. DONT FUCKING DO IT, GOT IT?

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- Pinay_ako
  
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  No. Not really 😑
  
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- RealDaveThomas
  
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  How can I make it clearer
  
  JUST DONT DO IT
  
  DONT DO IT
  
  DONT FUCKING DO IT
  
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subrugbylad Follow
Xper 4 Age: 45

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Oh I would stay until the end, building the sexual tension constantly, build more messages, share fantasies, whisper naughty things into each others ears etc.

The build up is the best part 🤣🔥

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DJB72 Follow
Guru Age: 52

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When I was in my 20s I'd have looked for somewhere to start things moving. Now I'm older I'd take her home straight away

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bennies_819 Follow
Xper 3 Age: 20 , mho 53%

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It depends if I feel the same and is he good at flirting.

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