Why would an ex say to me that his new girlfriend is " better than me" and constantly say how " I did not love him" when I did?

[Deimy]

[JamesDiaz11]

Because he's hurt, and he's not over you.

Stages of grief includes both denial (e. g. you didn't love him), and anger, which is why he's trying to hurt you with your replacement (and that's exactly how he's presenting this new girl- someone who is replacing you, not someone he found and decided to pursue love with).

[UnknownPuppet]

Hmm it is weird to be honest. Nobody can tell only with the details that you provided. There are many scenarios. Maybe, you loved him but didn't show him the way he wanted and we have been hurt. He is not over you and thats why he is doing the comparison with his current girlfriend. Maybe you did nothing wrong and he is not over you and he wants your attention. Maybe he is just a weirdo... I don't know. People are strange nowadays. You can not really tell what someone has on his mind.

[Deimy]

Ye he thought I did not love him and kept talking about it and " how this new girl understands him and not argue"

[UnknownPuppet]

Then possibly he feels hurt, he is not over it and he is a selfish to speak the truth. One way or an other, the fact that he has a girlfriend and he acts like that is weird.

[Deimy]

They are dating for a month... but at the same time he was taking to me and said that he would want to see me , he is still attracted to me... I stopped talking with him sad for that girl he is clearly using her.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he felt you were selfish or too obsessive with him?

[Deimy]

I was always caring about him... I even cried for him in front of his eyes cause my traineeship ended and I had to go home to my country

[MTC29]

If he's you ex, why are you still in communication with him? What is there to be gained by you still talking with this clown?

[Deimy]

I stopped talking with him sad for that girl he is clearly using her.

[FilmGuy93]

Have you considered the possibility that you're just dealing someone who is an asshole?

[Deimy]

Ye cause he already cheated on her by messaging and calling me behind her back and before saying he wants to see me and is attracted to me, cares about me

[LiamSawyer]

Time for you to seriously reflect on how much you did love him and how you portrayed that.

[genericname85]

well that's how people cope with being left.

[driven159]

why would you care what he says he is an ex for a reason move on

[dustybiker]

He’s hurt.

[Anonymous]

maybe because he feels like you didn't