Why would an ex still remind me what I did and can' t forgive me , compares his new girl with me but say he has moved on?

[Deimy]

[Guy13]

Because he still Values you. And, he is exploring if there is another with the “best of you” without the worst of you… That make sense⁉️ Severing yourself from him, without hope of return, woukd probably be best. I meet all kinds of new people based on hobby search at www.meetup.com 🤷🏻‍♂️🤷🏻‍♂️

[Deimy]

Nope he says she is better than me and understands him better... that' s the point and he is angry when he say " when we were together you did not love me"

[Guy13]

Oh, I’m sorry…I’m slow on the uptake. He is simply being cruel to you❓ He issuing she loves me better than you ❓. Block him ❓ Severe ties and find one better suited for you ❓

[Deimy]

Ye he is doing this... Ye I did it , he seems like narcissistic

[Guy13]

He seems immature and part of the Selfie age where ME, Myself, and I are all that matters🤢

[Deimy]

Ye I have the example: once I dated a guy who was only 4-5 months after break up, he moved so fast to our relationship , said that he loves me and other stuff after just 1 month and wanted intimacy , when he got closer he ran away saying things like " I wanted to check if..." and then I remember he was so angry at this ex like this one at me... every time he got drunk he used to cry about her

[Deimy]

But he is 29 years old. He said he can' t be with someone who does not work in the same sphere , cause he can' t have so much time for relationship... I used to argue with him cause he had no time for me and he say his new girl does nor argue for this cause " she is his collegue and understands it"

[likelyOK]

The fact that he is reaching out at all is totally disrespectful to her in the first place. It would be grounds for break up if I was the girl. But he is making such a pint of trying to make you feel bad that he is not over you.

[Guy13]

I agree.

[ProVox]

Because you allow him to. They're called ex's for a reason. He's obviously an asshole and was probably even worse when you were together. Why you still wasting time and energy on him?
Ghost his ass permanently. JMO

[Deimy]

Ye he was a " nice guy " at first but then I discovered that he lied so many times.. and he puts all the blame on me, that " I did not love him" when I really shew I did. He thinks I can' t be hurted or remind him that he hurted me cause I was " the bad one"

[ProVox]

He's in denial, he realizes he was in the wrong and is now having trouble accepting. Trying to convince himself he is right?

[Deimy]

Maybe it is his problem now..

[ProVox]

Exactly!